I mean If I don't know you, why would I want to know about your sex life?
There is a girl I work with like this. Her answer to this question is that I am a lesbian and it is ok to talk to me about her having sex with guys because I don't.
Meow?
2007-10-07 06:59:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
She is always saying things like "Sex is so good with Alex." (her boyfriend)
2007-10-07 07:06:32 · update #1
Hi Nina! She isn't my type.
2007-10-07 07:16:21 · update #2
tell her u dont really care about her business and that she's getting anoying, let her get mad at you, she'll live and so will you lol
2007-10-07 07:01:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she isn't having such a great sex life at all. Mabey she doesn't even have a boyfriend too. Most people who talk like they are getting some are usually just big mouth people who live in a fantasy. I would act as if I didn't hear her. She will get the message.
2007-10-07 08:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because gay people are generally preoccupied with sexual thoughts, and she just figures you must be some sort of an authority on the subject! But since having sex with another girl isn't in her realm of thinking, she is confiding in you with her man-issues because she figures you're "safe". She knows you're not going to use anything she says against her to go and steal her man - or men - away. A lot of straight women will do that if given the chance, you know.
2007-10-07 13:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't really think I would be discussing my sex life with anyone at work unless they were a really close friend. I find that it is not really professional but with that said maybe she feels like she can use you as a sounding board because you are not going to be judgmental about her actions. If it bothers you that much, ask her politely to stop because it makes you uncomfortable or change the subject whenever she starts.
2007-10-07 07:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by ljg423 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you don't care about her having sex with dudes because you're a lesbian and you'd rather hear about two girls getting it on than anything but if you don't want to hear anything sexual coming out of her mouth tell her to shut the hell up and go away.
2007-10-07 07:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by yeahwutevrusay 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Thats stupid! I hate it when my friends tell me about their sex life. Straight OR Gay, it doesn't matter. What they do in the bedroom, stays in the bedroom. What I do with my boyfriend, stay's between me and him! Tell her to just shut up about it, or find something else to talk about.
2007-10-07 07:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by Blood Angel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
franzkar you are a jerk.... tell her to give it up, and if she don`t then start talking about your innuendo's.crikey moses.make something explicit up girl on girl action and check her reaction,I'm sure she won`t bother you again.oh & franzkar the lesbian relationship im in now is all about love.so stop your hating!
2007-10-07 08:16:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds pretty clueless and classless. Which is the usual reason people engage in overly personal chit chat.
2007-10-07 07:02:25 · answer #8 · answered by Clint 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Everyone knows someone like this. They just like to run their mouth and brag, and become condescending sometimes. Tell her that she is being disrespectful, and politely ask her to stop. If she continues, tell her to stop being so intolerant and do what you feel is necessary.
2007-10-07 07:06:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonyomous 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to be proud but going around telling people stuff that's none of their business is really stupid and just annoying.
2007-10-07 08:42:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋