why do some husbands love everybody except wife?

Answer 1

It happens in all marriages. The wife is taken for granted.

Answer 2

I have no idea. Some men are monsters to their wife. I think that I am a very good husband and I treat my wife with respect, and I show her love every day as much as possible and she shows me love and treats me good. We are also best friends. So, I don't understand what makes other men or some other men not show love to their wife. If you are not being loved, then why would you want to stay married? At least talk to that husband about it. (smile)

Answer 3

Husbands are like books. Outsiders judge them by the cover but the wives read them from the beginning right thru the end. And only the wives know their husbands true colors. A husband can deceive others but with the wife, no such luck!

Answer 4

I wasnt' going to answer but...I have to.

First of all, not all husbands take their wives for granted.

Secondly, Love is more than hormones for humans--sure that's all it may be for animals but not for humans--gah reductionist thinking is one fallacy that truly annoys me. Anyway, Love for humans is part chemistry, part mental and part decision. Yes we do decide in part who we will love. Once we've made that decision that's when we start looking at a lifetime commitment and it's the decision to love that keeps us going when things get tough. I love my man! That is a statement that includes the decision a woman has made.

Love is not just a feeling, it is so much richer than just chemistry--it is a deep bond that goes all the way through a person's soul.

Unless of course one decides it's nothing more than that rush of chemistry and reduces it to lust.

Answer 5

The husbands are not wise. How could they love others and make the wives who are their life partners feel not loved? They make the obstacles for their future.

Sometimes we want our husband just love us, wives but they have to love to other family members and friends in different ways. Love between husband and wife is unique. When we are in our emotional world, we may not see it.

Answer 6

Those some husbands have not grown up to be a responsible Man. Unfortunately you married a little boy who is running after new toys. You have to take charge. Tell him very clearly what you want and what is not exceptable and be ready to stand up for your decision.

Answer 7

They never miss their water until the well runs dry. It isn't love out there, it is lust. And, they are bored. Perhaps the wife needs to make a complete change. I mean a complete change. Hair color, clothing style, start dancing around the house (bellydancing, even) and doing sexy things that will make him wonder what's gotten into her. Begin talking to more guys (no affairs) who will boost your confidence, and allow them to give you tips on what men like, as well.

Answer 8

cos she is already their wives and some people feel that if they got close to someone they dont have 2 show their love to them anymore.
if i was the wife, i would make my husband crazy about me , and make him stay at home anyway possible, make him chase me and not giving him what he want that easily and show him that i am a woman and i can make him weak and beg me.
lol
good luck

Answer 9

some husbands do love their wives but forget to show it often as in the initial stages of the relationship. some times wives are taken for granted. it hurts very much when it happens. just ignore him as much and he will run after the wive.

Answer 10

I love my wife