i'm married and i love my wife so mch. i have a daughter. i love me daughter very much.
few time ago i met a girl. i begun to like her. i love this another girl as my wife. she loves me and my wife loves me too. i have no complain from both. i like both. i love both. other girl knows that i'm married. i have told her that i love my wife so much. what is to do.
other girl loves me and she knows that i'm married, i have told her that i will never propose and tell to her that i love her or not.
so help me. i can't propose her. my wife knows about our friendship. so tell me what is to now?
2007-10-07 04:25:34 · 45 answers · asked by raj the secret 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what ever
you do not love both
you lust after one
and love the other.. if that
i doubt you love your wife
you merely like here because she bore you child and does what not for you
but you have betrayed your wife
and that is not love
2007-10-07 04:31:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is stay with your wife and daughter, you already created a beautiful family with blood and lots of time, so why distroy it with another woman. If you already have a good woman, then please give someone a chance to have to other good woman, you cant have everything. Be satisfied and be loving, dont hurt your wife and child. Besides your wife does so much more than this girl on the side, she has been with you through the bad times, and yet she is still there. Your wife doesnt deserve that at all. She loves you with all of her heart. dont tell the girl that you love her, matter of fact I dont think you should see her that often anymore. Try loving her as a friend and if you cant do that the GET RID OF HER IMMEDIATELY!!!
2007-10-07 04:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to this "other girl". You are Married !!!! And you have a FAMILY!!! You need to take care of your wife and daughter. If you are soooo in Love with your wife, then how did you get yourself in a position to "fall in love" with another woman?? If your wife knew this other girl was in love with you, I'm sure she would not want you 2 be friends with her !!!
And NO you can't propose to someone when you are already MARRIED!!!!!! What are you thinking?????!!!!
You better Start "Thinking" before you Loose your wife and daughter !!!! Use the Head on your shoulders, not the one between your legs.
2007-10-07 04:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by casper 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up. You need to be a man and start taking responsibilities for your actions. What kind of a woman is this girl if she knows you are married? You both have an utterly lack of respect for the sanctitity of marriage.
You must cut off all contact with this girl and focus on your wife and your daughter. It will take about 6 months to a year to get over the feelings you have for this girl. This is imperative...no contact whatsover, no visits in person, no emails, no phone calls...nothing!
I guarantee you will lose everything you love if you keep seeing this girl. The Bible says you reap what you sow.
2007-10-07 04:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you loved your wife, you wouldn't have gotten this close to another woman! when a person has been cheated on, they then have a decision to make....stay and work things out/ try to get over it OR leave. by not telling your wife about the affair, you are robbing her of the choice to stay or go. She should know what her husband is up to, be a man and tell her what you've done. She may not want you but she may be able to look past it and forgive you. Cut it off with the other girl. What kind of respectable girl knows you have a family and is okay with jepordizing it? ****!
2007-10-07 04:42:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are happy with your wife, do you want to dump everything for the sake of another woman? What meaning are you giving to this relationship? Is cheating ok? If its ok will you allow your wife to cheat? and if she did will you accept her.
You love your wife is really not the right word, a person who loves does not cheat, love has trust, and the day the trust goes you are not going to be happy with your wife, Besides your girl friend will also not trust you because you have role modeled to her that you are a sneaky guy and cannot be trusted. Hold on to the relaitonship (wife) and try to live up to the trust.
2007-10-07 15:09:31 · answer #6 · answered by thachu5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You take that as love for both?! Well, you are so wrong, Mister. How can you love your wife and daughter and at the same time you have other woman? I thought you should concentrate on being a loving husband and a caring father. Imagine if your wife and daughter get to know about it, how painful can that be?! Maybe to you it's nothing wrong to love them all. Then, might as well you love the whole world. See if the whole world love you back...
2007-10-07 04:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by narnia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You see, this freaks me out. My husband also has a female friend that I know about and am fine with, but of course, still in the back of my mind I often wonder, what if they start developing feelings for each other and next thing I know, he decides to be with her instead of me, dispite the fact, like you and your wife, we love each other very much, have children together and are happy. He has told me that she's not happy in her marriage, this just makes me a little more uneasy, but I'm not going to cause issue problems by becoming some kind of obsessed wife over this. Let me just say, if it does happen, I'm out! I do trust my husband, but if he betrays me like that, he can kiss my ***!!! If you really love your wife, like you say you do, then don't be so stupid. It sounds to me that you already have slept with this woman, so the damage is already done. Why do some men have to be such idiots? Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!
2007-10-07 05:07:51 · answer #8 · answered by Perkymo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if u honestly love ur wife, u should be sincere to her. Tell her. If you dont, then u really don't respect ur wife, u dont love her that much to tell her everything. If this is the case, u should seperate with ur wife and go to this girl, because if it's the case then u obviously love this girl more. ur wife would be better off without u anyway.
about ur daughter, well, it's entirely up to your responsibility. U r a dad now.
2007-10-08 05:10:09 · answer #9 · answered by sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are in love somebody other than your wife and daughter. Okay, can you do one thing, you tell this information to your wife and get away from her and family. Otherwise you can do one more thing you can go on love girls like this throughout your life, that will be a nice job, you need not earn money and all these girls will earn money and feed you. I tell you one more information, suppose by chance your wife says that she is in love somebody and she wants to leave you and go or you happen to see her with somebody in your bedroom what will be your reaction, How will you take this shock, Analise this situation and take a good stand. Yours VRVRAO
2007-10-07 04:34:32 · answer #10 · answered by Raghavendra R 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u had taken wrong decision by marrying a lady who has come spend with u untill her last breath
when u r married u must be loyal to her and dedicated
any ways tell evry thing to ur wife let ur life depend upon her
decision but 1 thing is sure if she hates first gets up set
but she recognises ur honesty and forgives u
the person u loved that she knows u married tell her that
lets be best friends and 4r get abt the love between
its hard to forget but both of have to do it
rather than to suffer 4or rest of lives
2007-10-07 20:58:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋