he is 14,and its been going on for about a month,he is really terrified and i dont dis beleive him,he says it holds his hands and jumps on his bed,and he sees shapes from the corner of his eyes,i have tried to reassure him,to no avail,what else can i do?
2007-10-07 03:01:43 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
we have asked him to be calm and tell it to go away,but at the minute he says he cant as he is scared,i dont think it means any harm,and to all those other replies,no he doesnt drink and he is in the house for a certain time,and he gets plenty of attention.
2007-10-07 03:49:05 · update #1
There is nothing wrong with your son. He is spiritually aware of this other presence. Your son is probably empathic. This spiritual entity cannot harm your son.
This spirit exists in a higher energy vibration. It's spiritual body takes shape when your son goes to sleep. When Humans go to sleep they are in the spirit realm. If your son opens his eyes in the dream state, he will be able to identify this spirit.
I have similar visitations every night. I am not afraid of spirits. Because spirits are like you and me except they are in the higher dimension. I get everything from little children to animals. It is just creation bonding with your son.
Your son is very gifted. He is at a higher spiritual level to have such visitations. Especially if he is interacting with the spirit. You must be more open to spirituality to comprehend the experiences. Don't get discouraged. The worst thing you could do is try to get science and medicine to disprove spirituality. You will only cause him more harm than good.
Do more research. Good Luck.
2007-10-07 03:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin Dellinger 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Are you absolutely sure he's telling the truth. He could be doing it for a dare, or to get attention or to get something out of you. Kids can be good little actors and parents are often the last to realise they're putting it on. Perhaps talking to his friends parents might reveal that they are playing a game. If not, then you have to determine is it the real thing or is he having hallucinations. If hallucinations you then have to determine whether it is physical or psychological. Changes in brain chemistry or body chemistry through illness, drugs or alcohol can cause changes in perception. Ghosts are real, but usually the real ones are not scary, their visitations are usually for support or guidance, not to scare you. Your son might be scared of something and this is the way he is trying to tell you with out saying what he is really scared of-nightmares etc. Maybe at 14 he is becoming more sexually aware and this is causing bizarre nightmares!??
2007-10-07 03:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by purplepeace59 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My daughter saw ghosts for a long time starting when she hit puberty. The psychologist said that spirits will reveal themselves to children because they believe were as adults are too sceptic. He also said that most times this will happen around the time the child hits puberty.
I have taken a picture of my daughter with a ghost standing over her watching her do a school project and he is just as she described him. This is normal so please let him know that as long as they are not harming him, he will be fine. If they were going to hurt him, they already would have. Sounds like they just want to play.
2007-10-07 03:39:28 · answer #3 · answered by countrygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to the doctor. The feeling of touching could be a change in blood pressure. Same as the feeling of the bed moving and the vision blurred on the corner of his eyes.
When you put all that together, it's easy to call it a ghost. But I'm sure that there's an organic explanation.
2007-10-07 03:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, ignore the silly answers here, you always get people who take the micky out of things like this.
I am no Mystic meg, but I was a sceptic, until we moved into this house 10 years ago.
There is some thing here, but not harmful, more like playful.
Your son may be visited by a similar entity.
I would sleep with him or move him into another room, rationalise his experience with him, and let him know that he is not crackers, these things do happen.
If he understands more about it he should feel happier.
Our 'spirit tugs my clothes and moves things around.
2007-10-07 07:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by H1976 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your son is obviously very aware spiritually children often are at a young age but as they get older the outside world steps in and they have other things on their minds. Has your son got any problems that he needs to air. please reassure him that there is nothing to fear there isnt one spirit that can hurt your son. we each have a spirit guide that comes with us at birth and leaves us when we die he will not allow anything to hurt your son.
It sounds to me that maybe this spirit person has come to lighten things up for him.
you could go into his bedroom and visualise a violet flame around his room and ask for the bright white light of protection for him.
Next time it happens tell your son to ask this spirit person their name and why they have come to see him. He may get an answer there and then or he may get an answer in his dreams but rest assured he will get an answer and that will make him feel tons better.
god bless and many blessings xxxx
but please dont you panic because he will be feeding off you as well
2007-10-07 07:10:38 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one night my brother thought he saw a ghost in our local graveyard.he burst through the front door,slammed it and locked it then cowered in the corner of the lounge,shaking saying i've seen a ghost over and over.turns out it was a large statue of an angel that was visible from the road and if a car went past the head lights made it look like it was moving.we laughed.i have always been a sceptic and will be until something proves me wrong.there's no such thing as ghosts
2007-10-07 03:11:19 · answer #7 · answered by PIRANHA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ghost can manifest in few seconds, but if he stays that long holding his hands and jumps to his bed, well that's really disturbing. If he can't withstand the fear, bring him to a psychiatrist. I have lots of experience about ghost but not to the extent that it terrifies me. I'm scared, felt my neck filled with blood and my hair raising during the moment of encounter but then later on try myself to overcome the fear.
2007-10-07 03:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by dalton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever felt like that? Maybe you could have someone come to your house and see if they sense anything.....Other than that all you really can do is reassure him or maybe read up online about "cleansing" your house. That may make him feel better. But the fact that the spirit is being nice is a good thing i guess.
2007-10-07 03:06:36 · answer #9 · answered by Sherie D 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I believe in ghosts too and this could all be very real. Children are a lot more perceptible to the 'paranormal', don't make him feel he can't talk about it. My sister had a similar thing in a house they once lived in and she opened all the windows wide and gently told the spirit that it was time to move on, his loved ones were waiting for him, she blessed her house and to this day swears that it helped. If you don't want to do it on your own get a professional in to do it for you. Let your son try sleeping ina nother room until you get this sorted. Let us know what happens, this is very interesting.
2007-10-07 03:16:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋