Someone suggested I ask this under this category-
We were friends
He got married
They got seperated & moved into seperate apartments
We started dating. (he was dating another girl too)
He moved out of state to come live with me & my daughter.
This past year he and I had a daughter together
His divorce was never finalized & now she wants to.
I came across an email they had written to each other.
She needed to know our daughters date of birth and full name to file the paperwork.
So he emailed her back the info.
1. Why did she need that info?
2. If she is using it to file for divorce on the grounds he had an affair with me- what are the repercussions?
3. Is there anything I can do? They were seperated and living apart for a year before we even started dating- and then we dated over a year before our daughter was born.
4. They never had any children together
5. He dated other girls while they were seperated, not just me
6. She lives in Minnesota, him and I live in Michigan.
2007-10-07 02:56:37 · 6 answers · asked by Amy Clark 5 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
She’s NOT going for alienation of affection (which is where you sues YOU for stealing her spouse’s affection), because neither Minnesota nor Michigan allows alienation of affection lawsuits (very few states do allow them).
I don’t believe (I could be wrong) that martial misconduct is considered in MN (which is where she’d file, because that’s where she resides) when ruling on property division or alimony. Therefore, I don’t know why she’d want your child’s information, unless she’s requesting alimony (even if martial misconduct is not a consideration, she may still qualify for alimony) and/or child support. The fact that he has a child with you that he has to support would likely affect how much he’d be ordered to pay for alimony/child support to her.
He needs to talk to an attorney. And in the future he needs to run her ‘requests’ by an attorney before he provides her with anything.
2007-10-07 06:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by kp 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she is asking for spousal support in the settlement, the court would need to know your daughter's information so that they can include her in the calculation. You need to file for a support order for your daughter, too.
2007-10-07 11:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by browneyedgirl623 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid nature lover is right. Since you no longer need to prove infidelity in order to get a divorce, then this is probably going to be about money.
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2007-10-07 10:05:06 · answer #3 · answered by Kacky 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like since you were not informed by him that she was asking such information the two of you need to communicate MORE.
Your child's information is none of anyone's business.
2007-10-07 10:07:40 · answer #4 · answered by BeautyQueen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
natural lover is so right about that .
Why did he e-mail her the info . It was none of her business .
2007-10-07 10:06:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is he so stupid to have included you in this mess. She is going after alienation of affections. He's married, it doesn't matter that they are separated. She's out to burn him and you are the only one who cohabited with him. You need to let him know to keep you out of it.
2007-10-07 10:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋