both my husband and I are afraid to go to doctors, 'cause it might end up to divorce if we find someone has a problem. it's a 16 year old problem. I'm hoping you can share me your great advises.
2007-10-07 02:39:22 · 7 answers · asked by prettygel_638 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok, u know my friend girl is married late she get married at the age of 35, then her husband is 30 , after 4 yrs still they have no child they have no problem coz they inlove h other but my friend is worried that stiill no baby , so she ask me what to do , i said .......like this , b4 u make love say for tonite , in the day time make ur husband in good rest let him eat healthy food a complete meal , u too , then get ready ur romantic bed room , like clean sheet , pillow , bed , romantic candle lite in love making , the flowers in bed the sweet fine music the freshness of cool air in the aircon and every thing , then make love , then this is the final , listen carefully , after ur husband finish i mean just remove his ,,, in urs , never ever , MOVE for 5 minutes or never run to bath room n wash, stay in bed let him go alone in bathroom to wash , even h cold dont go n stand up to dress up , let the fluid run inside in ovary , let ur husband cover u a blanket , remember dont move or dont go n wash , do this and good luck
2007-10-07 03:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by MIla M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after 16 years to get a divorce because one of you may have an issue that will keep you from having children???
Okay. Obviously, there may be medical issues which means you should definitely see a doctor. And whatever the outcome, you should also seek counseling.
Many would recommend taking your focus off making a baby and focus on each other and your relationship, you may be surprised.
2007-10-07 03:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could go to the doctors without letting him know. If there is something wrong isnt it better to know?? But i dont understand why it would end up in divorce if something is wrong. You both love each other and this shouldnt be something that seperates you.
I dont know if adoption is a possibility but if you really want a kid keep that in mind
2007-10-07 02:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by MiMi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting different results.
So I guess you and your husband are insane.
If you do not go to the doctor for help, then try adoption. Otherwise, what else can we advise?
2007-10-07 02:59:29 · answer #4 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest going to the fertility clinic and finding out whats up. Its better to know than to not know what the issues are.
2007-10-07 02:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can always go alone and get tested secretly. then you will know if it's you or him. if it's him... find a donor.
2007-10-07 02:48:46 · answer #6 · answered by sarah kay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should time your sex with each other
2007-10-07 05:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋