Not someone you had a few dates with I'm talking a mad passionate long love affair? What's it like? Is it like meeting a stranger or does it seem like you just left them? I have to know.
2007-10-07 00:57:17 · 9 answers · asked by Bill Spry 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The person I have in mind hung up on me when I called?! A few years later she was divorced from the guy she left me for. Does that tell you something?
2007-10-07 01:10:20 · update #1
Yes I did. He was my first love we dated end of our senior year in high school then in college, a total of 3.5 years. A very serious relationship. Any way I had just gotten divorced and he was separated (getting divorced) his MOM got us in touch with each other. We were living 2 hours apart. Neither had children. Seemed like we had a second chance. We ended up having a very passionate night that was just like I had remembered.
I guess the timing was not right, he had to mourn the loss of his marriage. (she had gotten pregnant with another man's child). We stayed in touch but nothing ever became of it except a wonderful memory. No, he was not a stranger to me. It was like we never were apart. Good luck. Thanks for letting me relive this story. :)
2007-10-07 03:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by Dani Bosco 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes; i love telling about this one.
But, really, how it turns out with most people will depend on how it broke up originally.
In my case, we were so young - at school - that we were both separated unwillingly.
So, when we saw each other 32 years later, at a school Centennial [now both married - though her husband was not there], it was as if it were only yesterday, and we had not forgotten our association in the least - though our love was very real and 'young', it was not encumbered by sexual encounters or any such thing.
So, we were as real, in many ways, as though it had been yesterday.
We spent the most of the time wandering around the school together remembering old times.
When it came time to part, she made sure she gave me the kiss we had missed out on those many years earlier when just suddently did not appear at the same school again.
I still know where she lives now, and rang her parents only about 4 weeks ago.
I still have never had the honour of meeting her husband though.
2007-10-07 01:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by dr c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initially, I was very nervous. I needn't have been. He and I are both happily married to other people. Our spouses were with us and we all got along very well. To be honest, it was a very pleasant surprise-we had a good time and seemed to enjoy each other's company. I didn't feel any of the old passion for him, but I could see why I loved him all those years ago (about 30 ago). So it wasn't like he was a stranger, nor was it like right after we broke up.....
2007-10-07 01:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have met an old lover after almost 30 years. It wasn't like meeting a stranger but there were no "sparks" there.
2007-10-07 09:02:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Close, 17 years.
It was like I had instant objectivity, which I never could have before.
He lost all his looks and charm, which made his shortcomings all that more obvious.
He was jealous seeing me with my husband, the thing I had secretly dreamed of once upon a time, but at that moment, I didn't care.
You will be amazed how much aging decades can do, that will be the main thing.
Good luck
2007-10-07 01:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by emilsignia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never been that long but my 1st X husband contacted me again after like 7 years. And I admit, I was giddy, excited, as I always was when I was around him. I felt the comfort and ease with him, the sweetness too. But I also got that same feeling that he was up to something, why me, why now....what does he want?
2007-10-07 01:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what has happened in their life, if they are married happy, it is just a good experience to be able to say hi and relive some of the past, also can be where you would like to sweep them of their feet and straight back into a bed and see if you can still do what you used too
2007-10-07 01:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by please ask m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya it tells me she filed 4 divorce long before u called her and its just coincidental that it was final a few days after u called her.
whats it suggest 2 u?
2007-10-07 05:56:50 · answer #8 · answered by junkyarddogfan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i met this 'passionate' love after a few years and i didn't feel anything special just reaffirming my choice to separate bc he was a bigger jerk after than before. i met him now i doubt if i ever recognize him
2007-10-07 02:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by sarah kay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋