If you look at any of the dating sites for gay men. Alot of the adds tend to have guys seeking guys who are straight acting. Some even say that the find camp gay guys really annoying and just can't stand thme.
Personlly it really doenst matter to me, if i like a guy enough I will like him not based on his mannerisms but more on his personality and his looks as well.
What is the general opinion about this.
2007-10-07 00:51:51 · 11 answers · asked by keith of keithZworld 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Honestly it just all depends on the guy and how he handles himself. I tried to date a really "straight acting" guy who was a night mare, he was super controlling, corrected me on anything I did, told me I couldn't let anyone know either of us were gay, then I realized how much of a jerk he was, told him off, and ditched him. My first boyfriend was rather feminine and I had no problems with him. He had some strange quirks though, but otherwise was fine. Him being feminine didn't make him a loser, him being a loser made him one. But on the flip side, my best friend is a bit feminine and he's the greatest guy I know. He's smart, funny, and would do just about anything for a friend. So honestly it really depends on the person, you really can't judge a book by it's cover. But I have no problem with feminine guys. :)
2007-10-07 02:05:05 · answer #1 · answered by Jyse 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely a turn off, big time. I'm not a heterosexual nale, so why would I want a man with feminine traits. Its so grotesque, I don't care of he's rich like Richard Simmons, it's still gross
2015-07-31 12:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by AskZilla 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea what to tell you or how to classify your sexuality... I mean, you're not necessarily heterosexual or homosexual, not bisexual or trans gender. You're attracted to the opposite sex, but seem to be attracted to those who also like the opposite sex. Maybe you're the type of girl who secretly, on some subconscious level, wishes to be a swinger and have group sex with more than one male? You feel gay men might be more apt to carry this act out as most heterosexual men are homo phobic? Again, though... I have no idea what to tell you or where to classify you!
2016-04-07 08:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me i find camp fem guys to be a turn off for the fact i like masc manly men that dont mind getting thier hands dirty or clothes but thats just me im gay for the fact i like men and if i wanted someone that acted like a girl i would just be straight and have the real thing not some guy that acted like one...
2007-10-08 01:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by micheal p 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When things are in moderation, that's a good balance.
Too far to either extreme (nelly or superbutch) is a real turnoff, and feels more like someone playing a role instead of being real.
2007-10-07 04:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an element of campery in many men whatever their declared sexual preference!
Like you I think a person who is a good friend is more important than whether they are Mr T or Ms Fem!
2007-10-07 01:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by Raymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with you, Keith. But there are an awful lot of men out there who think it's important. Too bad, too, because they miss out on getting to know some really good guys.
2007-10-07 03:33:19 · answer #7 · answered by Clint 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well am female should it really matter all u need to worry about if he is going to treat you right and has a great body to dye for doesnt matter what anyone else thinks and that he makes you happy if he is all that then what the hell get in there man .
2007-10-07 00:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by baby dust for me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like guys who r str8 acting
but they do have to be a bit femenime
cuz i need to make sure i have the pants of the relationship lol
2007-10-07 05:22:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell! I'm a wanna be lesbian, and I find them very attractive. I'm not exactly sure what that means, though I think we could use a 3rd sex. m f and m with f attributes.
peace
2007-10-07 00:59:42 · answer #10 · answered by Linda B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋