2007-10-07 00:50:24 · 16 answers · asked by Pramod R 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When you have tried everything you can think of , then one more. Sometimes there are people that as hard as we work, will never change and our love for them goes to the way side. If children are involved in this problem, do what is best for them also. If you and your partner fight, and show no love or respect to each other, the children are better off in a single parent household. The ending of any thing, is hard..God bless you.
2007-10-07 00:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by Annie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can just feel it. Your tolerance capacity slides down, the will to react is not there anymore even for abusive language.That spouse matters to you no more.you just donot want to react.just want to find a way to exit. if its a genuine misjudgment of the situation/person on our part some one will be able to reach us and put new thoughts in mind. Then probably we can revive the relationship. But if our judgment is right then marriage/relationship end there.
in life - 'if one door closes another will open' this is how we move on in life. But when we reach rock bottom all the doors seem closed. you feel you lost everything and there is no solution to your problem. Not to worry if we are fortunate and if we have the will someone will come with a new idea or thought. you never know. Life starts again may be in a different path. But never lose control of the steering wheel.
so when we get that rock bottom feeling its a red alert.leave all the jobs we are doing,leave the thoughts in our mind go away to a spot where you can revive your self by breathing fresh air. be alone, be with friends, be with family whatever makes you comfortable. listen to music,play games,dance,shout,laugh,paint do meditation whatever you want. what do you do when you feel suffocated. You go out to get fresh air. in the same way.recognize the feeling thats important. GOOD QUESTION
2007-10-07 01:16:33 · answer #2 · answered by KAAL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you have an ongoing feeling that you don't want to get out of bed and face another day/ or your partner. when you can't stand being in the same room as them. And you sit there and hope they don't try and have a conversation with you. You can't stand being touched by your partner. And the thought of them leaving for work makes you happy and the thought of them coming home makes you sick.
If your unsure you could seperate for a while and have a break until you know how you feel. good luck
2007-10-07 01:15:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-10 11:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when everything you do doesn't work out and it's just a repetition of predictable bad things that you don't know how you can get away from
about marriage i think it's when someone is looking to cheat all the time (in denial of problems) and the partners don't talk at all, hate each other and only talk money. my dad died and now my mom thinks i'm her husband so she treats me this way like she did with him. unlike him, i'm getting a divorce.
2007-10-07 02:22:21 · answer #5 · answered by sarah kay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure that it's when you have tried everything to keep it together, and the other person just does not care how you feel or care to change how you feel. when the other person is so self absorbed, that they dont' have a grip on reality and the prance around like everything is hunky-dory. You have to do something...sulking about it will only make you depressed, you have to do anything to force a change in YOUR life.
2007-10-07 02:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know because you have been out cheating on your spouse, you do not talk to your spouse you treat your spouse like s***, if you are getting close to that wake up and turn around and make your marriage work, simple you only get out of life what you put into life,
2007-10-07 00:54:40 · answer #7 · answered by please ask m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When the thought of your spouse makes you want to vomit, or make you feel dread or any other REALLY negative feeling. And they refuse to see that there is a problem and everything is fine or when counseling fails.
2007-10-07 01:08:12 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you start to ask yourself "is this rock bottom" --- then you've likely already hit it.
2007-10-07 01:20:51 · answer #9 · answered by Susie D 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is an easy one, when nothing seems to be going right, and you are in the dumps with depression.
2007-10-07 00:53:43 · answer #10 · answered by WC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋