why do women protect gaymen in conversations , why do they become good friends , is it all an act , stay close to you enemy and all that?
why do gaymen act so femine and weak , when their sexual act is so aggressive?is it all an act
2007-10-07 00:10:49 · 14 answers · asked by onerelic 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
its a question , its just something i have wondered about , why attack me for the question , why do you feel homosexual people need protecting they are the most powerful richest group on earth , as for the sexual act being aggressive , its invasion on a major level it has to be agressive
2007-10-07 00:26:02 · update #1
this question is not bashing gay men , and why be on the defenseive
2007-10-07 00:37:39 · update #2
ask yourself why is it that the only people who are calling me an idiot or stupid are female are the men , nodding their heads going yes hes right but afraid of the gay police
2007-10-07 00:40:03 · update #3
if women are not the enemy then why are gayen always looking at women with envy and evil eyes?
2007-10-07 01:27:35 · update #4
Probably because some gaymen have the physique of a man and emotions of a women...thats why they bond so well with the girls :)...
..experience told me that !!
And, nope...they are never my enemies, id still treat them respect them just like i would with my other friends..i think women tend to be their own worst enemy instead at times.
2007-10-07 02:14:15 · answer #1 · answered by Indian Princess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi onerelic - i would disagree that women are the enemy of gaymen - one of my best friends is a gay man- i met him when i was 11 and loved him dearly since- we were insepeable until he left for college and i didnt know he was gay - we always remained close and we are both back in our home town now after many years of study travel work etc- am shocked to tell you that we know each other 28 years now lol and i still love him to pieces- our home town is small gossipy and judgemental- my friend is very guarded about his sexuality- unfortunately he feels people wont understand - i protect him- if people ask me if he is gay i just say "ask him" it isnt my place to "out him" though i feel it would benefit him being open about his sexuality- i know he feels lonely and isolated and my heart breaks that such a great guy will probably never allow himself to find a partner to share his life with - he is a very strong personality- he is not feminine or weak- he is a brilliant businessman and i dont think his life is an act - but he is denying himself happiness - do you really think that gay men have aggressive sex? i would imagine it is sensual and tender just like any other couple - so from a female point of view- am i staying close to the enemy? absolutely not- i am staying close to one of the best friends i have ever had - and whom i adore with all my heart -
2007-10-07 00:25:30 · answer #2 · answered by maz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since when are women the enemies of gay men? I work with several gay men and consider them all friends. Unless they're putting on a great show, I don't think they consider me any kind of enemy. And for the record, being efeminate does not make someone weak. You're confusing the issue. Women don't "protect" gay men, but when we hear people like yourself bashing them, and we disagree with your notions, we stand up for what we believe is right. Nothing wrong with that. Furthermore, sex between two men isn't "intrusive", nor is it always aggressive. It's not more aggressive that sex between a man and a woman.
2007-10-07 00:30:31 · answer #3 · answered by OhKatie! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are pretty confused.
Are you confused in other ways too?
"If women are the enemy of gaymen"
a statement, which is not supportable.
In fact you don't even give any evidence to support it yourself, you just give evidence against it!
"why do gaymen act so femine and weak"
Ahh, I see now, you are getting all of your info on 'gaymen' from carry on films and 70's TV sitcoms.
The homosexual act is not aggressive... at least not anymore so than the hetrosexual act. And, if it is fully consentual, where is the room for aggression.
you should grow up a bit and learn, before making stupid statements
{and - before the obvious flames start pouring in - I am a straight person}
2007-10-07 00:20:23 · answer #4 · answered by Vinni and beer 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women are not the enemy of gay men. Gay men admire women because that's what they want to be. That's why the best designers and hairdressers are often gay men. They will make a woman look beautiful like a work of art, while another woman would always be that bit jealous.
Women often make friends with gay men because they aren't afraid to show their feminine side, share emotions etc. However they can be just as b*tch* as women if they are angry...I had a good friend in college who was gay and he could be more catty than any woman I ever met!!
2007-10-07 00:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by anna 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is it me? I am gay, I am neither weak nor feminine, have no desire whatever to be a woman,yet apparently according to the questioner and some of the replies that's me! I am a human being, not rich, not powerful, who has likes and dislikes, strengths and weaknesses and in a sexual sense prefers men to women.
As for this nonsensical notion of the questioner that women are the enemy of gay men, what could anyone add?
2007-10-07 00:53:41 · answer #6 · answered by Raymo 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Homophobes come in all shapes, sizes and genders, and sadly some of them are female. But lots of women like and appreciate their friends, regardless of their sexual choices. It takes time and effort to build a real friendship - who's going to waste that kind of time just to 'stay close to your enemy'?
From what gay friends and relatives tell me, gay sexual acts aren't any more aggressive than heterosexual ones. There are quite a few straight guys and women in many cultures all over the world who like anal sex as much as gay men.
Sex doesn't have to be all about enmity, hate, aggression and confrontation. Whatever people like to do in their bedrooms, they can still be good friends to everyone they meet. If I meet a person I like, I don't ask them about their sexuality - I just ask them about themselves and take it from there!
2007-10-07 00:27:29 · answer #7 · answered by Helen M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women aren't the enemy of gaymen. There are some gay men that don't like women because they 'want to be one' and there are alot of gay men that absolutely love women. Women protect gay men in convos cos they are in touch with their feminine side and 'women stick together'.
I can't even begin to explain why some men act so feminine, that is one that no-one can explain, strange one! Sexual act, u mean what I think you mean? Nope, i'm not getting into this one ....
2007-10-07 00:17:29 · answer #8 · answered by clairew1207 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What on earth are you talking about? I'm a gay man and some of my best, most trusted, most loved friends were women. My best friend right now is a woman. None of them were "pretending" to be friends. You really insult women by suggesting that they are dishonest and insincere in their friendships.
I'm not even going to bother answering your other question, because it's based on negative stereotypes.
You clearly have not done your homework.
2007-10-07 00:16:08 · answer #9 · answered by Michael B - Prop. 8 Repealed! 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
acquaintances that lie: while i stumble on out that a chum has lied to me I weigh the experts and cons of why they lied to me. If it replaced into to save my thoughts, then I forgive them. If it replaced into only an all out lie for egocentric reasons and somewhat in the event that they have a habit of mendacity, I take what they say with a grain of salt and reserve believe with that man or woman. a real pal would not lie, use or abuse a chum. I evaluate those acquaintances as acquaintances.
2016-10-06 06:05:23 · answer #10 · answered by gearlds 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋