I am a confident person sometims. and then othr times i ammm sooooo shy. so so shy. but if i read things like.. "dont let other people tell you what to do" i start 2 become more confident and stuff
so can you guys tell me some things to tell myself every morning or whenevr i start getting scared
some things i have problems with are:
participating in class
and in pe
help me understand that i have nothing to lose and im crazy for being shy and insecure
thanks soo much
p.s. im 15 and a female
not fat not gorgous
pretty and normal
my 2 best friends are pretty popular
i have my own style
i also need som epointers on how to make friends with guys cause i am always really quiet around guys and i just moved 2 a new school and they are freinds with lots of guys but i get really nervous when im round those guys even though they are really sweet guys
2007-10-07 00:06:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
when i say "they ae friends with alot of guys" im talking about my best friend.. they moved 2 this school last year and i moved this year
2007-10-07 00:06:56 · update #1
confidence derives from how you perceive yourself.
so, it will be of your own benefits if you believe in yourself.
don't compare yourself from others.
2007-10-07 00:15:17 · answer #1 · answered by togmolodon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and write yourself out a list of affirmations:
I am pretty, and a pretty wonderful person.
I am smart - just as smart as my friends.
I have something intelligent to say.
I am elegant and refined.
I dress well and economically.
I have excellent taste!
I choose only the best for myself and my friends.
I am fun to be around.
I have a great wit.
My smile is an attractive feature.
People like me!
I am fun to talk to.
I have ideas to share with other people.
I am helpful to others.
I am kind to others.
I have my own style!
Make little posters to put up around your mirror and read these to yourself each morning when you are preparing to go to school, or out with your friends.
Think of all the things you like about your friends, and if you share those qualities, write them down too!
If you have goals for yourself, you can also write them down and do the same: I will study hard and pass my math test.
I will join a club to learn something new.
I will enter the drama club or class to learn and gain confidence.
Good Luck!
2007-10-07 08:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by Princess Picalilly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well get up in the morning , look at your self , remember you like to have your own style and tell your self , im born to stand out rather then beldn in like a blur in the crowd...hope it helps//xx
2007-10-07 07:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by she will be loved... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, my tip for u, try not to be shy, acspress urself, enjoy life,
" sing like nobodys listning,
dance like nobodys looking
and live ur life as in ur in heven"
iam not saying u have to get really meen and snobby, but, dont be afraid... be happy let the world know who u r ;)
2007-10-07 07:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by Maayan C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you need love
2007-10-07 07:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by Wacky psychopath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋