OK i dont know whats wrong with me but i'm feeling really sad i guess is the word. I'm 19 and i'm doing a course the job centre sent me on, i really cant do much more of it. I want a job more than anything but i dont think i can do it. I feel like falling down and crying or opening the door and just running somewhere. Mabye i just need someone to talk to. I'm starting to not be able to sleep now. It isnt that i feel really bad for myself, i could be a lot worse off. I really dont know wtf is wrong with me. What do i do?
2007-10-06 15:00:35 · 17 answers · asked by Emm H 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Why can't you do much more on it? Is it because you are not interested in it and just doing it because you have to or "suppose" to? You can't do something and do it well if you don't like it or aren't suited for it. Talk to the individual who sent you from the job center and tell them up straight it is not working out for you.....you have to look for something you will be satisfied with and enjoy, surly they can understand that. There always hear me now....always options and other choices you just have to look and not be sitting there getting more depressed which will accomplish nothing. You are merely in a temporary slump which will come to pass. So the way I see it.....make up your mind you are going in with a positive attitude things will be resolved to your satisfaction. Get out a pencil and paper right now. Think it over and jot down several jobs you would like to check out for prospective choices. When you go to the job center take your paper and be postive when you talk to them. Let them know you have a desire to work but not just at anything something that interests you and that is where you are willing to start. Now you need to snap out of gloom and doom....things are going to turn around because you have some direction. There is nothing wrong you have just become overwhelmed by a situation you feel you have no control over, not so.....you take the bull by the horns, and when you get going on the new job route you email me and tell me what it is. I'll be waiting to hear! Good Luck....I'm counting on you...YOU can do it!
2007-10-06 15:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by Sage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like someone has already pointed out seems you may be suffering from a little depression. If you are stressed about going to this job they have sent you on and you hate it go back to the job centre and explain this to them and that it is making you feel ill the thought of doing a job you do not want.
I have been in a job that I absolutely hated and it made me feel very down so I left because could not do it but I am now in a job that I love more than anything, well apart from me little lad of course. Good luck you will be fine.
2007-10-06 21:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by Edgein 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry you're feeling upset! I'm not very good at giving advice but you sound sad because you really want a job but feel like you can't do one. I think the best thing to do is to maybe go to the Job Center that sent you to do the job and talk to them about it. Maybe you can come up w/ a solution after talking to them. I hope you feel better and I hope everything works out 4 you! =)
2007-10-06 15:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by Loves 2 Sing. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might be that you have depression. You should go and see your Doctor and also talk to a therapist and try to find out what is causing this.
I have anxiety and depression and have been trying an alternative therapy called Emotional Freedom Technique and it has really worked for me and helped me a lot. Since using it I have been feeling a lot better. It's very good at getting rid of all kinds of negative emotions and dealing with all kinds of issues quickly. It does sound bizarre but does work. Might be something that can help you.
2007-10-06 15:12:49 · answer #4 · answered by xoɟ ʍous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I have a problem I always seek someone older and wiser to ask for advice. You need to find something in life that can motivate you to work. If you have some good friends with decent jobs you could ask about what their work is really like. You can always go to school and get a degree of some kind if you do not already have one. It is important to feel good about yourself. I have two cats, one dog, and one rabbit. They make me feel good and calm. You can seek counseling if worst comes to worst. To me it sounds like you need someone to sit with you and listen to all you have to say. Get out in the world try some new things. Meet new people and you never know what will happen.
2007-10-06 15:09:46 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet cherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure I even have felt that way for years. I do have social stress. i don't sense mushy in great crowds. i'm not a social gathering animal yet I commonly want that i'd desire to easily enable bypass and characteristic relaxing. I even have got here across over the years that i'd desire to be waiting to "connect' people to have relaxing. i want at the beginning to love then particularly and then to sense mushy around them. i'm commonly uncomfortable around a team of strangers. ONe on one I do fairly solid however. I do like to bop however. i like to 2 step and in the area the place I stay we've 3 or 4 'dances' interior 50 miles of right here the place people carry jointly to bop. they are relatives oriented, no ingesting allowed and definitely laid decrease back. I went there for yrs and easily have been given to appreciate a handful of people. i assume that i'm very choosy in who I carry with.
2016-10-21 07:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by rud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run somewhere, like a hill or something and then just sit on it and think no one should bother you there, at the same time you get rid of some of that stress/sadness don't worry i felt the same way when relatives died. there was a ramp that happened to be near both my grandparents house when my aunt died we were @ my g-money's house and when my grandpa died we were @ his house, while i was sitting there getting consoled by a lot of ppl i didn't know i was so close to just getting up and running to that ramp
2007-10-06 15:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by Krys♫tina M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do anything you dont want to,if the course is getting you down then ditch it,try a course that will benefit what career you want,we all get like this at times sweety its life if you want to talk mail me Im here,dont runaway go for a long walk it will clear your head,just mail me take care............
2007-10-06 15:07:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like classic depression. You didnt say how long it has been going on, but you should probably talk to a doctor about it.
2007-10-06 15:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sit down and right out everything your feeling/thinking, it doesn't have o be in order just let it out, and then read it, if that doesn't give you any answers you should probably see some one to talk to
2007-10-06 15:05:29 · answer #10 · answered by Jess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋