~~~Is it normal to dislike your appearance at 15?~~~?

Question

Sometimes I feel too hideous to walk out the door...

but sometimes I feel attractive...

idk...

I think I'm insecure and I get scared just getting in front of the class 'cause they'll be looking at my face...

My mom and sis say I'm beautiful, but I just don't realize it...

idk...

Am I just awkward? Will I BLOSSOM and be confident?

I'm never the school "hottie"

I mostly feel like the school geek/quiet girl

but i'm really nice

Answer 1

I just turned 15, and I love everything God gave me!

Answer 2

There are so many insecurities that come along with your teenage years. I have been there, and at 20 I still have days where I feel like i look terrible or whatever. Honestly I think that most people have those days, it's something that you have to put a spin on, focus on the positives about yourself, and play those up.
Personality and confidence can go a long way, a lot of it comes from how you perceive yourself.
It wont happen overnite, and it might take some effort on your part, but you'll come out of it.

Answer 3

omg this is exactly how i feel dont worry i totally know what you feel im 17 but im no hottie either dont think about it too much but if something is really bothering you you can change it but you have to believe in yourself and focous on your other qualities.. i think that we all look in the mirror and sometimes we feel pretty other times not really but bring out the best thing in you that you really love and work to improve the thing you dont. Generally, your feelings and emotions are normal. Every human goes through it, even as adults. Dont worry a lot. Try to focus on other things yet work to build what you want. Message me anytime u want :)

Answer 4

Yup. Perfectly normal. You're at a crappy stage in your life when you don't know who you are yet. Give it time. You will start to feel more comfortable in your skin. You may never feel perfectly confident. I'm 11 years older than you (omg.) and I still feel like that sometimes. Don't be so hard on yourself! I bet you you ARE gorgeous and are just wonderfully humble about it! Much better than being a snob, don't you think! :)

Answer 5

Teenage years are lovely aren't they?

I wouldn't focus on looks too much...just focus on building a good, outgoing personality that people can love.

Looks don't matter as much if you're making someone smile.

Answer 6

What your feeling is normal. you won't like your appearance for awhile. Please try to keep in mind that these few years are not that important socially. who you are or what you look like while your in high school has no importance, for as soon as you walk across the stage to get your diploma, the real journey begins! (besides the "jocks" & "cheerleader types" peak in highschool)

Answer 7

I always had the "I dont care what you think of me" attitude. It really works in situations like yours. Why should you care what others think of you? You cant be worrying about stuff like that when you will soon have real problems to deal with.

Answer 8

it's a phase besides you don't want to be like those girls that think they're all that stuck up. be yourself. kids can be the meanest people on the earth. i don't know why but they are if you believe that you are beautiful then you are beautiful.but don't focus only on outer beauty. pretty is as pretty does

Answer 9

yes when i was 15 i felt ugly thats just because you wanna look great and perfect for guys and if you dont look perfect you think you're ugly!just look in the mirror and say im smoki'n hot!