My moms been gone for almost a whole week. My mom got of course hit by my mom. She took everyone else but me?..I don't understand. She hasn't called or yeah..anything. I miss her so soo much. She packed everything and now the house isn't really anything other than guy stuff. Today I was riding home form a chruch thng and he said I had an additude. He said that needed to gone like my mom was but forever and it was my fault she left. I hate it here...how can I get my mom back?
He said she hit him first but it doesnt make any sense I guess.
2007-10-06 11:23:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Aw, Babe, this happens all too often. But you know what? As hard as it seems you will get over it and there's always the chance they will make up. I would for sure ask my mom why she didn't take you and tell your dad there's no way it's your fault and he should stop taking it all out on you. Can you talk with your priest or pastor? It would help. Things will get better.
2007-10-06 11:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie I am so sorry that your mom didn't take you with her. You said that she took everyone else but you and I am sure that right now are feeling very unloved. I'm sure that's not the case, believe me! She probably was in a rush to leave that situation and wasn't thinking right, didn't consider that you might be in danger. I hope that there is someone that you can go stay with and that your mom gets in touch with you before too much longer. It's not your fault that she left, so under no circumstances feel that it is. Your dad has to blame someone and it is much easier to place the blame on you rather than himself. Even if she hit him first as he told you, that is no reason for a man to hit a woman. And if by chance your mom doesn't come back, try to make the best of the situation such as it is. It won't be like that forever and someone will step in and intervene. I will keep you in my prayers and hope that everything works out the best it can for everyone involved.
2007-10-06 11:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by thumper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mother probably thought that you would be safe with your father but that she would not be, so she left It is hard to walk out on one's entire life at a moment's notice like that so that some things are done that we might do if we had more time to think the move out. she may not have had a place to stay, for example, so didn't take you with her for that reason. Try to think if there is another family member she may be in contact with and perhaps you can reach her that way. Your father is turning on you because she is unavailable but once she gets situated - a place to stay and a job of some sort - she may well want you to join her wherever she is. Good Luck to you!!
2007-10-06 11:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should find an impartial relative and go live with them. you're mom was right for leaving due to being hit, but, she was 'not right' in leaving you there to deal with 'him'. u have every right to have an 'attitude' but, he's using that as an excuse to take things out on you. be safe.
2007-10-06 11:27:28 · answer #4 · answered by raishe alghool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋