That they are playing you along with other women!
What would you do if you found out that they were?
Thank you for all your answers!
It will really help!
2007-10-06 09:26:21 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I am an honest person and aways want to be that way! His stories keep changing which happened before with my ex husband and feel it will happen again. I wish he was honest and told me so I know where I stand. I don't want to make sacrifices for nothing! I do love him and care about him which is hard!
2007-10-06 09:39:00 · update #1
Yeah First Marriage after the first 5 years things just started... not feeling right. I remember I day I came home and found her screaming at her Mother, really nice lady, and Mom crouched down in the corner of my Den crying, after I got between her and Mom and confronted my wife she left Mom alone. Hod to confront her several times on things. Sadly, I held on the 20 years ( For the kids) even though I felt something was wrong. In the end I found out my feelings were right from,of all people Mom that she had been with another guy for 5 years. So with the pushing of "The Kids" I got out and divorced. Saddest part was even though I knew and she abandon us I still cried, Figure?
Sad story is longer but it would take hours
2007-10-07 01:38:39 · answer #1 · answered by sidecar0 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh yes i have.and there was no denying it you could see it all over his face.it had nothing to do with seeing another woman however it had to do with his ex wife whom he has a child with.i confronted him right away and after 2 years of my being with him i told him he had a choice to make because i did'nt want to spend anymore of my time on a relationship where it included him,myself and her.he made his choice 2 years ago (COLLECTIVELY WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 4 YEARS)and i must say we have been happy without her in the picture.now maybe he can move in his life with just me especially now that she is recently deceased.
2007-10-06 09:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by CHER 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My recommendation is meditate on the meaning of the word "partner"...
Being lovers is a much stronger bond that being partners.
Do partners lie to each other?
No.
Partners do not lie to each other: (in a certain company there is one sales person and one accountant, if the accountant lies to the sales person or if the sales person lies to the accountant, then they are short changing eachother).
If partners do not lie to each other then certainly lovers do not lie to each other.
Move on and bury the past.
2007-10-06 09:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by David L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I've dealt with that in a couple of relationships!! I have a zero tolerance on cheating, if they cheat they don't get a second chance!! I believe that if you truly love someone the thought of cheating should never happen!! Good Luck!!
2007-10-06 09:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by Ginny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we all say if we found out we would leave but truth is most of us dont if we truly love that person...my husband cheated on me twice and i stayed mostly cause i loved him and i guess i felt partly to blame each of us are different can tolerate less or more its an individual question to answer but you dont know til faced with it in real life good luck
2007-10-08 09:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by ♥FANCYS_MAMMA♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I even had doubts I would demand total openness and honesty including my checking up or secretly following. I would not stay in a "secretive" or doubtful relationship.
2007-10-06 09:31:03 · answer #6 · answered by Raven 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust is very important in relationships......
define 'playing along with other women' perhaps they just flirt a bit but are commited to you but then I could be wrong ...and in that case you have to decide what to do...good luck...ask allah maybe
2007-10-06 09:31:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dumped them like a hot potato! I didn't want to get some disease or be with someone I couldn't trust! Yeah, it was painful, but now I'm with Mrs. Right (mr magpiemoxie).
2007-10-06 09:31:13 · answer #8 · answered by magpiemoxie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I discovered that my ex was screwing around with 4 other women on the internet, I dumped him in a NY minute. Go with your gut, it will know if someone's screwing around on you.
2007-10-06 09:31:42 · answer #9 · answered by FKC 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i shod of been straight from the sart then nonme of the **** that happen .IT would of dispereD any dount wold go and ur fell more coftabel with me i knoow SREWD UP im so sorry I LOVE U !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LAILA T HEY IM THE PERSO WOH SREW UP. I DONT CARE I KNOW I SCREW UP
2007-10-07 01:32:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋