I don't know how to say this but I think I done something silly , this boy loved me for me and I ask him out but at the time I was only making fun out of him and then I went out with this guy name chris and we used to wait for him outside his home in front of his door waiting for him to come out or come back from school we all was same ages and me and my BF used to french kiss each other ever day for 2 full years so he can see it and then we cost him 1 year of his school cause he wanted to get his own back of what we was doing to him , anyway it went to court and he won us. 7 years later I saw him and we both looked into each others eyes and he still look hurted but same time he still look so mad at me. after all this time why can't he just drop it ! and if I see him again what should I say cause it wasn't just me ! I looked into his eyes after 7 years and I saw him being so mad but same time he given me abit of soft look but before all of that 7 years ago I called his mother a fat cow and I got onto all his family and made fun out of them all in front of him
2007-10-06 07:50:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
So.....many...jokes! So....little...time!
2007-10-06 07:54:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
From the way that you phrased the question, I get the feeling that you didn't apoloize to him yet for what you've done to him. The first thing you need to do is apologize to him for what you've done to him, and I don't mean just say the words. You need to sincerely say you are sorry to him for hurting him the way you did.
You don't even seem like you understand at all how he feels. How would you feel if the guy you completely adored started to make fun of you and torture you the way you did to this guy? It hurts when someone breaks your hurt normally, but it really burns when that person not only breaks your hurt, but tortures you about it constantly.
Even though it was 7 years ago, being a guy, he may have taken a serious hit to his pride. I'm not saying he thinks about it everyday of his life, but that whenever you come to his mind, he gets a negative thought of you. Time may heal all wounds (a phrase with exceptions) but it still leaves scars. You need to take the initiative the next time you see him and tell him you apologize, what you apoloize for, and why you are apologizing. After that, it is up to him to accept it or not.
Also, as a tip, when you are apologizing, do not put your actions on anyone else or on the fact that you were young and stupid. Take full responsibility and let him know that his feelings matter to you, and that if you could take back your actions, you would.
2007-10-06 15:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by peaceablefruit206 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you sound like you're about 7 so I'm *HOPING* that this story is just made up but I will still answer it as if it is not:
He wouldn't forget that because that is something that will be in his head for a long time. This guy is going to have self-esteem issues for years to come and is probably going to need some serious counseling to get over your cruelty.
You're the type of person that helps to shape these kids who shoot up schools. Behavior like YOURS is what causes that. You can not get out of it by saying it "wasn't just me." You willingly participated, you are at fault.
If that kid chopper off your arm 7 years ago and was posting on here "why doesn't she just forget about it," how do you think you would feel? You practically tore a part of his heart out of his chest and dangled it in front of him.
Sick. Evil. Demented.
2007-10-06 14:59:24 · answer #3 · answered by John 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow that was mean of you , you ^*&^$! and your bf agreed to do it with you, all he was oding is making a man jealous, he didn't really love you. I would never do something liek that, its childish and annoying, poor guy, he shouldn't let rude people liek you get to him. He should forget about it because he deserves so much better than a beyatch like yourself, what is wrong with you? sorry I just can't believe anyone would dot hat, and I bet a bunch of peopel agree with me, am I right?!?! You don't even deserve a chance wth him, you blew it and you both should move on... Never do anything liek that again you loser...do yuo really feel that good inside by hurting someone, by kissing someone you didn't love and he didn't love you to make someone jealous. He didnt do anythin worng he just lieked you jeez, come on...GROW UP! grrrrrrr you just got on everyones bad side! :<
2007-10-06 14:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to realize that you hurted him so bad.What you did was awful.Some people cannot forget what other people hace done to them because it really hurts.The best thing to do is to kneel down in a quiet area and pray to your heavenly father for forgiveness and to help him and his family and to guide you etc. Buy him a present and a present for his family and give it him when you see hime next time.Tell him how sorry you are.
2007-10-06 14:57:25 · answer #5 · answered by kewlestgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so what is the question? You cost him a year of school for what? Went to court for what? I think you all need to grow up and stop dwelling on the past.
2007-10-06 15:00:42 · answer #6 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a sicko. I don't think most people would put that much energy into hurting someone else just for pleasure. You need help.
He has a right to be hurt, he liked you and you turned out to be a weirdo
2007-10-06 14:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by t. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I want you to think seriously what you did to him, then put yourself where he was. How are you feeling? Not so good to have someone make fun of you, and your family. It is not easy to forget the hurt that someone piles on your head because they are vindictive, mean, and bully's. You might try and apologies to him, but be ready for him to shut you out, just like you did to him.
2007-10-06 15:00:17 · answer #8 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're mean!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You will never understand how he really felt until simular thing happens to you. Something silly??? You left very deep wound in his mind & heart. It sounds like you blaming him to get over what happened 7 yrs ago. This is what you have deal with what you have done for him 7 yrs ago. Live with it & do not ask from anybody answers. This is a lesson you should learn.
2007-10-06 14:59:51 · answer #9 · answered by Q 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really hurt him. You can't just go around hurting peopole like that and playing with them like they have no emotions. Your grammer is horrible and you obviously don't care about anyone but yourself.
Think about it.
And, go ahead giving me a thumbs down, but you can't deny the truth forever.
2007-10-06 15:01:25 · answer #10 · answered by Jess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you're cruel to people for a very long time, it's hard for them to let go of that. You're getting what you deserve and he has every right to resent you....even if it HAS been 7 years.
2007-10-06 15:10:15 · answer #11 · answered by Kathy R 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋