i had sex with my bf on the 26th September and ment to start my cycle on the 7th October, but i have had no crapms what so ever and this has not happened before! it was unprotected sex (very stupid) did i have sex when my body was very fertile or not? please can someone help! i tried getting the morning after pill but it is illegal to sell over the counter in the country I am in!
2007-10-06 07:28:55 · 12 answers · asked by taz 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
In the end you must ask your mum or even a teacher you like. Don't try and hide it. You don't say how old you are and that might be an issue if you are under age. But in the end your mum will only want what is best for you - tell her what happened just as you have told us (don't forget the bit about being stupid! Then she won't say it!) This must be a worrying time for you - I hope your boyfriend is standing by you and helping you through this - it's his fault too! You say you can't get the morning after pill over the counter - they are very expensive - why not talk to your doctor or school nurse if you can't talk to your parents - they will want to help and respect you for asking. I believe that if you have unprotected sex when your period is about to start then you may be fortunate - if so great, but don't trust to luck. I hope it all works out for the best - be brave and tell someone you know will help.
2007-10-06 07:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by dcfingringhoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually women ovulate 12-16 days before their next periods. But, since cycles change from month to month, and you can't really know for sure when your period was really going to come, then no one can tell you whether you were in your fertile time when you had sex (so, anyone who tells you that you were in a very fertile time is just guessing - they really have no idea).
But today is only the 6th, so you aren't even late yet, so I'm not sure what you are so worried about. If you don't get your period in the next few days, then take a pregnancy test.
And if you wanted the morning after pill but couldn't get it "over the counter", why didn't you just go to a doctor?
2007-10-06 14:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs.P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart,
Any time you have unprotected sex, you risk getting pregnant, or worse (getting a Sexually Transmitted Disease (STD)).
Some of us are more fertile than others, and according to my calculations, if you are very regular, on the 26th, you were likely at the very end of the most fertile time of the month.
It is too late for a "morning after pill" but you can purchase a pregnancy test. Get two just to be certain....
Don't panic just yet...
If you are not able to raise a child, there are many people who would give their "right arm" to love and care for your baby.
I hope you have a supportive and understanding family member you can talk to. If not, email me and I can at least "talk" to you.
2007-10-06 14:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by jwright2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your period comes exactly14 days after you ovulate, if your period is due on the 7th of october then you would have been due to ovulate on the 23rd of september, your egg can be fertilized up to three days after ovulation, so the 26th would be on the third day after ovulation, so yes you could have gotten pregnant, you are not due your period until tomorrow so it may still come, there are pregnancy tests that you can use at this stage if you would like to know now
2007-10-06 16:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by lynda q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend, It is likely that someone will eventually become pregnant or share a disease when unmarried people tempt themselves by being alone with one another. Also, please do not take the morning after pill, as it can cause the death of a very tiny baby. I am not sure what country you are in. If you are in the US, Canada, or England, you can get support and information by googling optionline and finding a pregnancy resource center. 1800afamily is a telephone resource. Anglicansforlife.org is a good website. Please take great care of yourself and your baby if you are pregnant.
Sincerely, Runner
2007-10-06 14:38:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be. But it is only the 6th and no-one's cycle is ever bang on every month of their menstruating years.
Don't panic until the 11th and then try to get a testing kit. It will be fairly accurate by then.
2007-10-06 14:37:10 · answer #6 · answered by jo :) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be it is possible to get pregnant at any time. Try taking a home pregnancy test. Good luck!
2007-10-06 14:49:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had sex on a very fertile day. Get a pregnancy test, and if it is negative repeat if your period is late. Are your breasts swollen and sore? This is often a sign.
2007-10-06 14:38:05 · answer #8 · answered by cpinatsi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's possible that you are pregnant. Wait a few more days since you're supposed to start your period soon, and if it doesn't start, take a pregnancy test.
2007-10-06 14:33:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you might be---DON'T ASK OTHER PEOPLE GO GET A TEST AT THE DRUG STORE THEN SEE YOUR DOCTOR they have test now that shows 2 weeks if you are PG
2007-10-06 14:43:18 · answer #10 · answered by darlene l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋