he flirts with a woman for months ...tells her he's into her..
tells her to come visit him quickly..they live in different states
she visits they get together physically but not sleep
no discussion about feelings takes place
she contacts him to meet up but he doesnt respond
he contacts her afterwards ..all friendly but he doesnt
mention a meet up..she invites him ...he said he will go
but doesnt know when
2007-10-06 06:43:14 · 11 answers · asked by person 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
No sex or no sleep?
2007-10-06 06:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by ReBelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not psychological problems, but perhaps just a flirt who is into controlling people. She should stay away, because there is no such thing as a physical relationship with no feelings involved. One side or the other is bound to have feeelings, whether they're discussed or not. If they live in separate places, he does not seem worth the time and effort to "get together," regardless of what that means to each person involved.
2007-10-06 06:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by Cecilia F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there,
No,I do not think you have a psychological problem sweety,I do however think that your just not interested in that particular lady and don't know how to let her down.I think your a caring man to even pose this question and feel a little quilty about how you feel about her ,but,just be honest and say there was no spark and that way you'll at least have let her know there won't be a future with her while saving your dignity and conscience.....Good Luck and I hope you do find what your looking for........................................................Annette
2007-10-06 06:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by annettekendall@rogers.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 09:14:57 · answer #4 · answered by blea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to evaluate the mental competence of this person based on your description, however, at the very least, this man seems to have his own objectives that do not seem to match the woman's.
2007-10-06 06:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by Skeptic 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hm, strange. Sounds to me like this person perhaps is a bit flightly. Just wants to have fun but not interested in anything serious.
Psycological problems? Not sure but obviously isn't into one thing and isn't into committments. I feel this person is into anything spontaneous and isn't one for making plans he has to stick to. Perhaps irresponsible.
2007-10-06 06:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by Casha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so he sounds like a user, its up to her not to be used or be a victim tell her to join a club or a gym, get out and about do something for herself
2007-10-06 06:48:47 · answer #7 · answered by milly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Cut to the chase and stop playing games.
2007-10-06 06:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...its called being a man.
Pretty typical man behavior.
2007-10-06 06:52:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy's a player - he enjoys the chase but not the capture. he's the type that puts notches on his bedpost. lots of guys like this (probably women too).
2007-10-06 06:47:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he didn't get what he was expecting.
2007-10-06 06:45:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋