There is a 27 year difference in the ages. She is quite younger. But she has expressed her desire, in more ways than one, of her attatchment and satisfaction of having a more experienced and wealthy companion.
But I worry. Is she simply using her beauty and younger body as a lure to get monetary returns?
I care deeply for my best friend. Ole Ernie is getting on in years and that poodle down the street seems to have wrapped him around her little paw. Should I keep her away and encourage him to "love up" the fence post as a substitute?
I don't want him to be hurt by false and contrived "love".
2007-10-06 04:22:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
U r old enough and wise enough to know better!- WAKE UP AND SMELL THE GOLD-DIGGER.
Come Onnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn. Don't make a fool of yourself.
As for Ernie, if he's happy, good for him. A pole humping poodle is better than a man blinded from common sense by a young set of boobs .
2007-10-06 04:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by Renesme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My partner is 17 years younger than me. . .but I'm female. We are great together. He told me his uncle advised him to go for someone older. Younger women for men are too high maintenance. . .his uncle's advice. We also have a friend who is married to a younger woman (20+ years). He always looks tired - takes a lot of energy to be married to a younger woman I guess. I, on the other hand, am told I look 10 years younger now that I'm with a younger man.
So, I don't know if the age difference is an issue but it may be a compatibility issue. Interests, energy, etc.
Love can be "security" and if that's what Ernie gives her, I'm sure he's getting something out of it too.
I wouldn't interfere. . .you know what happens when friends do that in this kind of situation. They usually pick the person they're with rather than the friend who's trying to help them. Let it go, stand by Ernie and be there if things go good OR bad. . . .
2007-10-06 04:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by Share 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now put yourself in Ernie shoes...wouldn't you love a younger woman hanging onto you in your old age? No matter what the cost? I'm sure he knows that she must have other motives besides just him....come on now...27 years is a big gap! Especially if she's beautiful....he probably wants to just enjoy his time left and doesn't care about her motives. If he has money like that, what better way to spend it? He can't take it with him! If you say something to him, he's not going to listen becausee he's enjoyiong himself and he's in love! Look at Anna Nicole Smith...do you really think her husband thought Anna loved him because of his looks and personality? Hell no...he was a wrinkled up cripple man and she was a vibrant beautiful woman but he was happy to have her a pert of his klife and he left her everything for her services! Then he may think you're jealous if you say anything at all....so support your friend and tell him to get enough for you too or better yet ask his girlfriend does she have a friend for you.....so you can stay out of his love affair! LOL
2007-10-06 04:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by concernone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love can exist in any relationship but its all the other age factors that will determine if this relationship survives. Sooner or later the age factor will come into play via friends, health, society events, etc. and then will the love be enough to hold it together. Especially when the younger is tired of the "father" factor and wants something more her age.Understand? Good luck
2007-10-06 04:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your, er, I mean Ol' Ernie's eye sight still serves him he'd be able to notice the difference between the surrogate fence post and the beautiful young body unless she was anemic and horribly skinny.
There have been many successful May and September relationships and Ol' Ernie probably yearns to have a little "Fifi" for his Fie-fo-fum!
2007-10-06 04:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ink Corporate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-07 10:34:21 · answer #6 · answered by joerling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on, ole Ernie is old enough to know what he wants. Besides you only live once, let him ENJOY....:)
2007-10-06 04:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old is quite younger?? i do hope she is LEGAL! even is she is legal i wouldnt date anyone 25 or younger, they are too immature and need life expierences to become mature. Over 25 i say go for it !
2007-10-06 06:27:08 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ஐDanielleஐ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens for a while but i finally divorced my ex after 15 yrs. because of the age difference.he was 20 yrs. older.
2007-10-06 08:42:10 · answer #9 · answered by bratt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do believe that people can fall in love no matter what age they are. however, you have mentioned that there is money involved with this guy. who know, she might love or it could be the money. that's a chance that we all take no matter what age we are.
2007-10-06 04:37:01 · answer #10 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋