I have been a member of this site for a long while now and I just want to know, why someone would think that someone else would make uo a thing like their husband died. I posted a question the other day abotu me being preganant and that my husband died a few months ago and I wasn just wondering if guys can look past the fact that I am pregnant and like me for me and date me anyways. Whay would I make that up and my questions still stand can guys look past the being pregnant thing and like me for me???
2007-10-06 03:50:52 · 10 answers · asked by badtinky69 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Ok I am not trying to be rude but if all you have to say is to concentrate on my baby and on and on please just stop. I have been a mother now for over 7yrs and I feel that I don't have to be alone to grieve or to make my child feel important because lonliness in not a qualification for being a single mother. So thanks for that advice but no thanks.
2007-10-06 04:15:13 · update #1
Some people might think that you made it up because there are a lot of trolls on here that come on and just play around. Some people might also think that since you are still pregnant that it might be too soon for you to start dating (But that is completely up to you). A lot of guys end up dating women that are already pregnant. Just be yourself.
2007-10-06 03:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband just died a few months ago and you are pregnant then I can't imagine you being ready to date. If my husband past away And I was expecting I think that finding a new man would be the least of my worries. I think that I would be more worried about my baby not people just liking me for me because the fact is your are not just you anymore now you have a child to think of .
2007-10-06 04:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by motherof3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They should. They mostly have problems with the fact that it's another mans child, not that it's not theirs. My brothers girlfriend just had a baby a week ago. They broke up for about a month and when they got back together, she was pregnant. He was alright but still disappointed in a way. When it came around her due date, he got down and they weren't really communicated. Now he doesn't talk to her as much. They are still dating but he's is still up mixed. He's so quiet, we didn't really know that he was down, we detected it.
2007-10-06 04:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by ~Love...Peace...Happiness~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People make up all kinds of stupid things on the internet to get attention. I don't know why your tale seemed suspicious to someone, but don't let people's comments get to you. If you know the truth, what do you care about some nameless, faceless person on the internet thinks about you? Let it go.
To answer your question, yes, there are good men out there. But maybe you should focus on your pregnancy and your baby rather than worrying about jumping into dating / new relationships. Give yourself some time. I'm sure you're lonely, and yes, you deserve to be happy, but a new relationship isn't going to fill the void of your husband.
Good luck.
2007-10-06 03:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by Take A Test! 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Seriously being pregnant is somewhat difficult to look past. Having said that however alot of guys, myself included find pregnant women extremely attractive. Don't give up, some one will like you for you. They wont look past you being pregnant but accept, acknowledge and enjoy it.
2007-10-06 04:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by Spooky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is a lot of good guys that would love 2 be with u if they were raised right ! And if they love u they would raise the baby to the best of there ability !
2007-10-06 04:02:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
congrats about being pregenate and yeah people are mean here. I feel sorry about your loss and you are what you are I know it sucks that people treat you s**t but I get the same well i aint pregenate I hate it's depressing and its proberly worse for you because your life sucks at the moment or griving over someone that was so prescious to you.
2007-10-06 04:00:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I looked at your profile and the questions that you have posted and I didn't see any question about you being pregnant or your husband dying.
2007-10-06 04:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky Raccoon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because people on this site and stupid, ignorant, and have no lives. There is someone on now asking 5 years olds having group sex. Its disgusting what people lie about.
2007-10-06 03:56:23 · answer #9 · answered by xchasingsummerx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALOT OF GUYS GET COMPLETLY TURNED ON BY PREGNENT GIRLS!!!
I remember when i was pregnent i had more guys hitting on me then i ever did in my whole life!!!
2007-10-06 03:55:54 · answer #10 · answered by iamhuntersmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋