2007-10-06 03:13:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have major mental problems.... Spouses dont say that to each other.. They struggle through the bad times and get to the good times again... You are pathetic and sad
2007-10-06 03:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Find your true self hey?!
You're just kidding yourself. You are going through that middle life crisis and are itching to see if the grass is greener on the other side.
Only you want your cake and eat it, otherwise, you'd be clear about wanting a divorce or separation.
So, which is it going to be?
Should your husband be understanding and wait for you while you go and ... explore to find your true self?
Or should you two go your own separate ways?
Whether you feel bi-curious, wants an affair, or whatever, you'll have to make a clear choice, because this one is going to be a one way ticket!
2007-10-06 10:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all have him take you out to buy a new lingerie wardrobe. Then have him pay to have you waxed. Next, go home with him. Take a long luxurious bubble bath. Put on your new lingerie. Then tell him you are going OUT for a while, and you want him to wait at home and do some cleaning while you are OUT "finding" your "True Self" I think he'll get the hint if you do it that way. Who knows? It just may work out for both of you.
2007-10-06 13:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by K M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you should have done before you got married. If you need to find yourself now, you need to do it within your marriage. Remember the Wizard of Oz? If you go looking for happiness you need go no further than your own back yard. Look around. See what's in front of you. Good luck :)
2007-10-06 10:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah ummm good luck with that, it does not and will not work out, If you need to "find your true self" you can still do it with your husband by your side trust me.....unless your REAL goal is to sleep with other people and in that case you need to just be honest with him and be ready for it to blow up in your face!
2007-10-06 10:28:10 · answer #5 · answered by ~NIKKI~ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to just sit here and wait while I go out and sleep with whoever I want and if I can't find someone better and with more money I might be back.Easy!
2007-10-06 10:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by notagain49 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I did that. and he kept on trying to get me back.
Now that we're back it's not working so well and he is in denial.
Now, sleep on that, and when someone tells you the same thing you just asked, tell them to go do it and moveon with your life, It will cause less emotional pain in the long run.
2007-10-06 15:42:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wanted to "explore" and find your "true self"...should have done that before getting married....Just be honest and tell your spouse that you have met someone else and are cheating on them.
2007-10-06 10:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you, 12? Stop playing around behind your husband's back and grow up.
2007-10-06 10:49:58 · answer #9 · answered by Aiden 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How dumb can u be?
Adultry is just what it is.
Seems as tho u have already done that.
Get a divorce and let your HUSBAND find someone who will
love and appreciate him as u obviously don't.
SHAME ON YOU
2007-10-10 10:22:01 · answer #10 · answered by ittybitty1962 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋