Finding it difficult to let go and still thinking about what I should do to get by. I still love her but as someone said shes toxxic. But shes my favorite mistake. Trying to dissapate the loneliness any suggestions?
2007-10-06 03:09:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If she was unfaithful to you, then kill her. That ought to take her off your mind. But just be very discreet about it; you could get into a lot of trouble.
(You didn't hear this from me!)
2007-10-06 03:48:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes it's best to re-evaluate what made you fall in love with her from the start! Because it would be really bad to let go of real love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I say that from experience first hand! Often, time apart can heal even the most toughest relationship in the world but hiding your true feelings for her can only make your heart hurt even more! Acceptance is the one thing you are to face, accepting that this woman holds a special place in your heart, your only lonely because you aren't ready to face your own demons of where your heart really lies! Don't keep a stern hard heart if it's not something that you really feel your ready to let go! How do you know that she doesn't feel the same? Often times we are the first ones to judge what faults the other person has, did you evaluate you as a person to see if you had any that could've destroyed you guys as well! Never live in a glass house and throw stones, especially if you were at fault as well! Keep in mind we sometimes can be our own worst critic..................... Sometimes we need to re-evaluate ourselves to find our faults and short-comings because believe you me, we all have skeltons.......................
Good Luck!
2007-10-06 10:25:46 · answer #2 · answered by rita_hiemy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is a list of things I tried and the result:
therapy- didn't work
happy pills - didn't work
moved out of state- didn't work
Jim beam - didn't work
Stoli - didn't work
Johnnie walker- didn't work
Other women - didn't work
budwieser - didn't work
Ok I haven't found any remedy yet but some of the things on my list are worthy trying agian. I think I will start now, its after 5 EST right?
2007-10-06 17:26:20 · answer #3 · answered by Johnboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read an article 30 years ago in Playboy that suggested the best way to get over a woman is to find a new one. That's what I did in this situation.
Dress up and go take dance lessons. Good Luck
2007-10-06 10:17:36 · answer #4 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to change your mindset. You've lived with Mrs. Toxic for some time and have imprinted your mind and emotions with thoughts of and consideration for her. Now you have to "detox" your brain and learn a new behavior. Refuse to dwell on what might have been and move on. Find a new direction for your life and the loneliness will have to go.
2007-10-06 10:21:30 · answer #5 · answered by Laredo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes your heart make it difficult to let go but life is to short to live in torment.You will get by , time heal all wounds.Get together with friends and stay busy.
2007-10-06 10:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will get better with some time. See other people and do things that will get your mind off her. If she was unfaithful; she will do it again.
2007-10-06 10:16:17 · answer #7 · answered by Barbra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep thinking of the fact that she was unfaithful to you....and had no respect for you and your marriage....as with anything...time will heal the pain. Also keep busy with family and friends.....do things that you enjoy that will take your mind off of her.
2007-10-06 10:33:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find someone else.If all else fails try Jack Daniels in a large glass,no ice.
2007-10-06 10:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by notagain49 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new one :) go out have fun with friends, find a new hobby, get a pet! get her off your mind!
2007-10-06 10:12:24 · answer #10 · answered by firecracker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋