That a guy help his wife or girl friend clean the house, And the wife or the girl friend clean the house over. All I was trying to do was help.
2007-10-06 02:05:49 · 17 answers · asked by sofar 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
She appreciates the help.She is just making sure everything was done to her liking.I think woman pay a little more attention to fine details,when they clean.You are very sweet to help out.
2007-10-06 02:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I cannot speak for everyone, most times when my husband helps to clean he does a really good job. Sometimes though like in the kitchen, he just wipes around the things like the toaster and I move and wipe it off too so maybe that is why. When he cleans the bathroom he does a pretty good job but he does not clean around the bottom of the toilet and the sides and you know you guys don't always have perfect aim. We REALLY do appreciate ALL your help we just do the little extra in case some nosy friend stops by. LOL thanks for helping it does mean the world to us.
2007-10-06 09:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by teresa m 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you did not do it good enough for her? Or possibly she is a control freak. You two need to talk about this without blaming each other and figure out a few things. Like she should understand that if she continues this, it can take away any urge you might have to help. You might ask her what you could do for her that she found missing in your clean up efforts. In other words, you both need to adjust and/or compromise but first, you must both listen to each other.
Best of luck to you both.
2007-10-06 09:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like the wife/girlfriend has a bit of OCD or is a Type A personality.
2007-10-06 09:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh how sweet...
Dont worry abt that, u have done ur part, and well done. Dont u know, its very difficult to satisfy women... That doesnt mean they didnt appreciate ur work or that ur work was terrible... They just want to have this feeling of personal touch and satisfaction.. Keep helping..
Cheers!
2007-10-06 09:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by Manu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time don't help her. She is ungrateful. If I did something like cook or clean and someone went and did it over. As if I hadn't done it. Next time they want help. The heck with them. And I would tell them so.
2007-10-06 09:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by Sunset 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because there is a particular way some people like to do things.. you were not doing it as it should be done so she re-did it.. but it is great you helped.
2007-10-06 09:12:42 · answer #7 · answered by *JC* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol If I had someone helping me, I would not be doing it over!
Some people have certain places they want things and have certain ways they do things. Whether they get help or not, these people want it the way they do it. I guess it's just what they're use to.
Don't take it personally. : )
2007-10-06 09:14:02 · answer #8 · answered by Alright 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people think that they are only ones who can do job right, so don't worry, just keep on helping
2007-10-06 09:09:55 · answer #9 · answered by maggie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awh thats so cute ⥠:-} maybe she perfectionist, i dunt thenk she meant it personally more than how she lieks how she lieks things cleaned, but i think maybe it would be good to think of how u feel a'fore cleanin' again, cuase thats kinda mean
2007-10-06 09:29:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋