is right for me to marry awomen
2007-10-06 01:00:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No doubt two people marry for propagation of next generation legally but this is not the only reason for marriage, nor their is any precondition that a person unable to give birth to a child cannot marry. The very fact the process of adoption & with the latest development of medical science artificial insemination for child birth has made such problem of child birth solved for childless couples. What is more important in such case is potency of the person having such disability. If a person otherwise potent sexually but due to certain disability unable to become father or mother can still marry & enjoy the sexual life with his or her partner. You have to clarify this disability to your partner before you marry & take his or her free consent for such marriage. You can always be in touch with the medical specialist for any help in conceiving the child by artificial insemination through your sperm or ovum as the case is & have a child whenever you want. Just be honest with your life partner regarding this fact before marriage as this should not be an issue for annulment of such marriage afterwards for this reason for taking consent for such marriage without disclosing this relevant fact. In case you are impotent & are unable to enjoy sex with your partner or make him or her enjoy with you, then this should be made also clear as this may become a ground for annulment of such marriage too. This the legal position with regard to such disabilities.
2007-10-06 01:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Hey!
What exactly is your problem? Infertility of dysfunction?
If it is infertility, there are may ways to solve the problem. Any good Doctor at a reputed fertility clinic shall help you out.
And if the problem is dysfunction, there are various means to by pass the problem of having a child.
Now then with that out of the way, let us look at another aspect of the difficulty. If you are concerned about sexually satisfying your future wife, then you should take a crash course in the Kamasutra. Just the physical act of sexual union is not the be all and end all of sexual satisfaction. There are a variety of alternative methods to achieve what you want. It is not possible to ennumerate those on this open forum, as it might hurt someone's sensibility, but, a good sexologist will be a great source of information.
Do not worry young man, the world has not come to an end for you.
But yes, most people here have given you one advice that is of paramount importance.
Do not forget to tell your future wife about your problem.
Take her into confidence, and then go for the solutions, together as a couple. This will not only help in bringing about a change in your life, it will also bring you closer to each other as man & wife.
Take it in your stride, and get on with life. There IS a woman out there somewhere who will understand you, and then proceed to make you happy for the rest of your life.
Good Luck to You and Her !
2007-10-06 08:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by pinak m 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not being able to get a woman pregnant is nothing to be ashamed of or feel guilty about. The first thing I would advice, if you have not already done so, is to get to a doctor, someone who can take the necessary steps and tests to determine if you are in fact sterile.
Now, if you are, then when you find the woman you want to be in a relationship with, you be honest and you tell her that you are sterile. That way she will know. There are so many beautiful lonely children that could use a good set of parents..so my advice..you be honest and you can always go different ways..you can adopt, there is always other methods the Doctor can tell you about..but again...the best thing is to get tested and be honest about it in your relationship. The best to you.
2007-10-06 08:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by Ness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two aspects of your problem.First is whether you are able to have sex successfully? If the answer is yes then of course you can marry a girl who may not be interested in having a child or a woman/widow (with children) if you prefer. If you are not able to have sex then you may have to proceed cautiously. In such a case you would better be advised to clear the matter beforehand not only with your parents but also with the girl/woman who would not mind your being impotent as she herself may not be interested in sex may be owing to biological dysfunctions. So, not that all the ways are closed for you.
2007-10-06 13:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by IDEAL@ans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you can marry!
There are so many women who don't want children. And just make sure a woman u decide to marry knows so adoption or other things can be done
2007-10-06 08:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether she wants to have children through adoption or through the natural birth process. You should definitely tell her you can't physically have children, and let her decide. Many women want to adopt, some are not even interested in having children.
2007-10-06 08:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by Nancy M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but you need to be honest and upfront about your sterility. As long as you are honest about it, you should encounter no problems.
You may marry someone who prefers not to have children at all. Or you may marry someone who has children already, and prefers not to have more. Or you may marry someone and decide to adopt children together.
You have many options, but it all starts with honesty.
2007-10-06 08:05:14 · answer #7 · answered by Suz123 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how do you know for sure? did you get tested? And if you love this woman, can you live without her? and lastly, did you ask her what she thinks of the situation?
maybe she doesn't care about children, or maybe the two of you can go to a fertility clinic and she could get inseminated...there are dozens of options. think with you head and your heart will follow.
2007-10-06 08:05:48 · answer #8 · answered by Oldmansea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude u r really a honest guy hats off to u
my feeling is to tell truth to the women whos going to marry u
if she feels that u r the man of honest &caring husband then
u can marry her
2007-10-08 04:53:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOULUTELY YES!
There are other ways to bring children into your family.
A good woman will love you for the man you are, and what things you can do for her....not the things you can not.
There are so many options out there these day...you CAn give a woman a child....in alternative ways...
Just worry about giving her yourself for now!
Good luck to you
RUe
2007-10-06 08:04:15 · answer #10 · answered by Unitsi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋