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my marks are dropping,my parents dont look happy,i feel i am a burden on them as i am not doing well in studies

2007-10-06 00:36:48 · 37 answers · asked by Rock M 1 in Social Science Psychology

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Every human being is given an important role in this world by the GOD. The problem comes with our attitude only when we try to go with the wind only against our interests and capabilities.

Convince your parents and try indulge some other activity also where you have got interest.

If you see lot of professions are cherished even with out academic studies.
....sports, jobs in media, hardware, politics, marketing, etc........

But every one needs basic academic study.

I sincerely suggest you to adopt a simple hobby as well as try to pursue any interested avocation.

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2007-10-06 01:20:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Simple answer to this is NO. there is so much more in life... Enjoy what life you have!! Life is short enough as it is, so you shouldn't be thinking that way. When you die, you'll be gone for a long, long time...

You can always get help (tutoring) to improve your marks, Your parents may not be happy, but it may be from different reasons (Parents suffer a lot of stress from work life etc), you are not a burden on your parents because you're not doing well in your studies!! They love you regardless of what marks you get and I'm sure they're proud of you. You can get someone to help you with your school work and you really should speak to your parents about how you're feeling.

If you need more to read, try the website:

beyondblue.org.au

Good luck and hang in there! Things will get better..

2007-10-06 00:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by KieKie 3 · 1 0

You need to talk to someone, if you can't talk to your parents, is there a teacher or friend you could share your feelings with? You are not alone in the way you feel, alot of your peers are probably shouldering the same worries and burdens. It may feel like a dark and thick mist is hanging over you RIGHT now BUT it will ease of over time, you must NOT think you are a burden to your parents as your studies are not doing well, try and broach the subject with them, they love you and only want to best for you. Perhaps they could get you a tutor to give you extra help towards your exams? Keep smiling!!

2007-10-06 02:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by Hotcakes 5 · 0 0

No, suicide is not the answer. The problem you have is temporary and changeable, your bad grades are something you can make an effort to change and do better at. As long as you make a true effort, no one should fault you for that, and if they do, then you know that you made the attempt, and you know that it was the best you can do.

Never choose the permanent solution to a temporary problem when it involves life. The reward is too little for a very high cost.

And while all of that is a little cliche, think of it this way, if you get an ingrown toe nail, you don't cut off your foot, you fix the toe nail and wait for it to heal.

So take a long hard look at what's causing your bad grades, make an attempt to do better, and wait. You may not get all "A"s but if you wait long enough you'll be out of the classes.

Either way, problem solved.

2007-10-06 00:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by cyber_phobic 3 · 1 0

Hugs. Oh yea, commit suicide and make yourself more of a burden on your parents. Honey, they don't want you dead. Don't run away from your problems by killing yourself, okay. Suicide is boring anyway.

If your parents love you they should be satisfied with the fact that you're trying your best at school, despite the dropping marks. Right? And even if you're not trying your best, if you tell them your problems they should understand and support you for it.

Lots of people have these moments in life where they think all is over. But it's not! To live is to fight. Do it.

Take care! Don't forget to talk to your parents about your feelings.

2007-10-06 00:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

do u know the pain and hurt u will cause your family and friends and everyone that loves u by doing such a stupid thing?..grades arent EVERYTHING..EVERYTHING MIGHT SEEM SO HORRIBLE RIGHT NOW..LIKE NOTHING IS GOING RIGHT OR NOTHING IS GOING YOUR WAY BUT THATs LIFE. things dont always go ur way..besides YOu WONT always feel the way u are feeling now its not like u are going to be stuck in school forever dealing w/all that pressure.By killing yourself it would only show people how foolish and weak u are that u chose to run away frm.youre problems instead of confronting them..I SUGGEST u fix your problems by talking to ur parents or a school counselor and seeking help immediately.. tell them how u are feeling and whats going on and if ur not doing well in youre studies try seeing a tutor after school and study longer and harder.i am sure youre not stupid anything..if u have trouble concentrating is most likely that its because theres alot of things going on in your head and in ur life all at once that are keeping you frm.focusing.you need to seek help and talk these things out w/a proffesional.

good luck

2007-10-06 01:13:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

which class are you studying?
see just because your marks are dropping right now, it does not mean it is the end of life or anything like you will have to commit suicide.In case you get low marks forget it. i know it is difficult but just do it. say to your self that you will forget it. if there is anything that distracts you, ignore it. until the next test, strive hard.
parents of course will have their own worries but you should be able to convert that look in their face to determination.
if you are in tenth, your marks in the monthly or quarterly or half yearly determines nothing. I know a guy who was no where near the top three.but in the finals he was third in the school and another one who nearly flunked in social in pre boards but scored 100 in the finals.
me myself nearly flunked in mathematics in my seventh but from there i worked hard (it does not refer to studying daily but studying with full dedication once you take up a subject for studying). if there is any subject you are particularly interested study that daily as it might not be boring you. listen in the class with your fullest concentration. this will help you to write the answers in the exam without much preparation. RELAX.
if you are trying to commit suicide it would be cowardice. you can do better. MAY GOD BLESS YOU

2007-10-06 01:25:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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2016-11-07 10:20:50 · answer #8 · answered by dhrampla 4 · 0 0

I only hope you are not serious. My friend committed suicide three years ago and left in his wake dozens of devasted friends, destroyed family and unanswered questions. Grades/studies are not the end of the world despite the way you may feel currently. You are their child, not a burden. Look at what is making you feel that way - are they putting pressure on you to perform in your studies, or are you?
For goodness sake talk to someone about it - if you can't talk to your family, talk to a guidance counsellor, talk online, talk to a friend - talk to whoever you have to - just don't consider suicide an option.

2007-10-06 00:43:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

In stead of suicide,have you examined the reasons for your performance in studies ?If you do that honestly and work hard to improve the situation,I am sure that you shall find that it's easier to do better in study than think of cowardly things like a suicide.Wish you all the best and hope that your next question shall indicate your achievement with a pride.

2007-10-06 00:49:52 · answer #10 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 1 0

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