....or it could be the fear that you are commiting to someone for life...
What is your experience?
2007-10-04 19:33:48 · 8 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
ok I can tell you from personal experience if you have a feeling that he/she may not be the one.... then they're not. I married someone with that feeling and we were together for six years before I finally came to the realization that I was fooling myself into thinking that I truly loved this person and that this was just a stage I would get through. It wasnt just a stage and I got through it with divorce. Not the best solution. I with I would have listened to myself years earlier. I wasted a lot of years that I could have been as truly happy as I am now with my current love. Also wasted alot of my ex partners as well.
Dont try to fool yourself if you feel that way now, you always will and it will catch up to you. Hope you make the right choice.
2007-10-04 19:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by Just Me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was engaged to be married once and I had that feeling - the day before we were supposed to get married - isn't that awful timing?? Well, for me I had new found reasons why it wasn't going to work. It's a long story - but the bottom line was - I was only 21, very immature and incapable at that point of holding a commitment. I didn't even have a firm value system in place for my life. It was like he believed I was somebody I wasn't quite yet. It took me 10 years to mature enough - then of course much too late. Sometimes it's much more than a little fear. We all have a little fear - but if it's nagging at you like you're going to make the biggest mistake of your life - you've got to follow that gut instinct. It's better to break someone's heart prior to marrying them - than to get married, have kids and then end up filling for divorce - that's complete misery. Well, the guy I ended up marrying - I knew the moment I met him that I was ready and that he was it. I had some fears but no tremendous gut instinct pressuring me in anyway.
2007-10-04 19:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because your friends were probably just saying that and you're being more honest with yourself. I used to feel the same way. I went to Catholic school where I was the only one who didn't seem to give a darn about any of that stuff and I just never connected with religion like my friends seemed to. I think it's because there is a part of you that is looking for facts - you aren't willing to accept something deep down when there are inconsistencies. There is nothing to be ashamed of. You should do some digging to find facts about Jesus and all of that to figure whether Christianity is the best fit for you or if you'd prefer some variation of Christianity or some other religion altogether. I recommend going to academic sites to read up on the bible and Jesus and looking up The Book of Judas. It really puts Jesus into a brand new light and made sense to me. It's a part of the bible that wasn't published formally. Basically, the bible is a collection of "Best Hits", so it includes the easiest to understand and most popular stories that were around when the bible was written. Muh luck to you! I hope you find your way, wherever that might be,
2016-05-21 05:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we all went with our gut feelings then so many of us would'nt have so many regrets. From my experiences, i know when my gut feelings tell me something and i don't listen then i always live to regret it. x x
2007-10-07 04:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by †100% Angel† 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My gut feeling has been pretty accurate. It keeps me in line.
2007-10-04 19:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by Georgie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I knew the moment I met my husband that he was the one I was going to marry him. I never had any doubts about him.
2007-10-04 19:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by Lizzie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have always trusted my inner voice, always
it is just like alarm clock warning me about things
2007-10-04 19:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by not fair 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question is kinda confusing. What is it exactly you want to know?
2007-10-06 16:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋