am i wrong ?
is that a wrong feeling ?
do i have to forget him ?
i am 15 so tell me plz
2007-10-04 19:27:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ Africa & Middle East ➔ Egypt
i mean general not me ok ?
in general : is love bad for teens ?
2007-10-04 19:43:47 · update #1
no my sweet girl, it is a perfectly normal and healthy reaction to your changing situation as you grow up.
sadly it is usually quite a difficult experience as at 15 it is often not appropriate to do anything about it. and it probably makes you shy and embarrased as well. all of which is perfectly normal too. after a while you will find your feelings will change a little, but you will always remember your first love and you will always feel just a litlle soft for him.
just enjoy the good parts and get through the diffcult parts.and never think it is wrong, it is perfectly normal and we all go through it. but also remember your parents teaching not to do anything you will regret or worry about later.
2007-10-05 07:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by sabrina 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally i don't think loving someone other than your family is wrong when you are a teen. As feelings for another is nothing something you choose to do more it happens gradually and it's not something that can be easily turned off. It depends what your intentions are if you do love another when in your teens that i can find wrong. What i can find maybe not wrong but uncomfortable is when young teenages have serious relationships which can lead onto underage sex and i am a big believer that you should have sex after the legal age with someone you truly love and even wait til your married.
Feelings change sometimes and is likely in young teenagers when they grow up and find who they truly are and what they believe.
2007-10-05 04:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by Crazy girl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong in loving a guy but the question is how do you know it is really love? It must be just an infatuation or crush on him because there's something in this person that you really like and admire. Liking someone is normal for someone your age. I know because I've been there. Do you have to forget him? Well, it depends on how it affects your life, if it's in a negative way I suggest that you do but when someone is "inspired", which I hope is in your case, then use this to motivate yourself to study harder or become a better person. Awww, I miss my teenage life ;-(
2007-10-04 20:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love is not wrong at all the problem is u r still 15 and u have the whole life waiting for u. u will meet thousands of guys as u grow up and its too early for what u r doing now.
Yes love is very nice and the more nicer is to find someone to care about u and to talk about him with ur friends but its too early dear.
By the way, don't say "its not me" coz its u ;)
2007-10-04 23:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
its not wrong at all
love is a nature in human's heart then u don't control it i mean u can't come a day and say i'll love this guy but love comes up by itself without ur attention but its feelings and at this age- like me- i feel this and many people told me its a natural thing not wrong at all but teenagers feel that almost cz they r getting older and 15 years old girl is not a young age 4 love but its the center of feeling about the last question i don't really know the type of love u r talking about it maybe considered love first sight and i believe in this type althought many people consider it fun and also it maybe one sided love as the guy is not in the sight also there is majority love that seems that u love each other but aroung the fence of friendship friendship may change to love but love is not easly changed to friendship that's my opinion my dear frnd
wanna talk to u but busy :(
2007-10-04 23:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are 15, enjoy it! Yes u are going to fall in and out of love many times till you meet the Mr Right.
2007-10-04 21:06:06 · answer #6 · answered by chersgaz 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
love isn't wrong at all. ur only problem is that ur only 15 and I'm certain when u grow up u will have a totally different feeling toward that guy and ask urself "What the hell was I thinking?"!
2007-10-04 22:14:38 · answer #7 · answered by Ruby 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, you still so young and you can't decide if it is true love or not. Believe me life is so complicated and love is not a word. So make your self busy with studying better than having daydreams about this guy.
2007-10-04 19:32:56 · answer #8 · answered by Ask me 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hi tweety how ru?
i may be the frist one to oppose the idea of loving in early years cuz from my very tiny expriance i may say that what we feel towards oppsite sex can't consider to be love but it is admiration or obesstion only
what we feel is only a need for love or a need to be loved and enjoying this feeling we are really"LOVE LOVERS"and as we get older we will know the real meaning of love be ware to love now cuz this love will not last alot u may hurt or be hurt from other,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
HOPE I HELPED U
2007-10-05 00:51:02 · answer #9 · answered by Adham 1910 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think its ohkay to love someone.. depends what you mean love.. everyone has their own definition.. but if its too much then try to control yourself and back away.. not hard, just think whats your greatest ambition in life.. and are guys more important?? like those CIA agents.. i dont think they're supposed to be in love or in one of the movies they weren't and couldn't and yet two still did it. just think you want to be one and getting a guy will only stop you. wait a couple years and come back, it really depends what's your definition.. try controlling yourself.. its like in class you could just breakout running around and dancing and singing like a retard or maniac. but do we do that? no... we Control ourselves not to look stupid or do weird things.. exactly. copy and paste to this situation.
:)
2007-10-04 19:34:53 · answer #10 · answered by Mimí..ツ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋