2007-10-04 14:53:37 · 15 answers · asked by Aqua G 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You don't get to choose. You are what you are and you are born that way.
2007-10-04 14:59:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess your question is trying to say there if you were given a choice you do not know if you wan to be a bi or straight?..er..k..i guess you are bi and you do not know if u wanna be bi or straight...i think you want to be straight but you cannot imagine ur life without boys..and you do not want others to consider you as not a 'normal' person..but you see if u were a straight, you would not be having those thoughts bout men..
2007-10-04 19:13:10 · answer #2 · answered by CuriousBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, that isn't a choice you get to make. Maybe you're questioning right now, but you'll figure out soon if you're straight, bi, or (gasp!) gay. One of the grossest things you can do though, is pretend to be bi or gay when you're not. It's demeaning to you because you aren't being honest with yourself, it's hurtful to the people you lie to (your friends, the people you date), and it's also a slap in the face to those of us who actually are gay or bi. So don't do that! Figure out who you are before you do things that might hurt people, including yourself.
2007-10-04 15:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by Kaybala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that it is a choice, rather what you really feel inside. Think about any one of the same sex that you may be crushing on... do you see yourself hugging them and kissing them? If not... then more than likely you are bi-curious, if you do.. then give it a thought. Don't be afraid to show the real you.
=]
Over and Out
2007-10-04 15:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by Jessie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't rush into it. Just take your time and see what happens. Keep both labels in your pocket in case you feel you need to wear one. Myself, I'm both. I am a straight bi guy. Or a bi straight guy. And I like it.
2007-10-04 15:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never heard the term 'stright' before.
2007-10-04 15:09:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some persons feel this is an alternative lifestyle. It is not. Sometimes persons seek experimental activities only to realize they were gay. Gay lifestyle is difficult because it deals with more controversy than your man and woman relationships sometimes.... anyway..I don't think it is a matter of choice but of realization.
2007-10-04 15:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by nsprdwmn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even want to try and choose? it chose you and you cant help that, just be happy and enjoy the best of both worlds.
2007-10-04 15:00:36 · answer #8 · answered by jamoore278 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make yourself one way or the other... you just are.... sometimes people make the mistake of labelling themselves... sometimes they are just not 100% straight, but they dont label themselves bi not until they know for sure.
2007-10-04 15:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow ppl have that choice? i would straight if i knew that
thx for telling me now i can stop picturing gurl naked!
*rolls eyes*
2007-10-04 15:50:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋