I didn't carry him, but I remember telling someone I just went through labor by myself and holding him. My stomach was still flat. He didn't have a name initally and I remember talking to his father...the guy I'm seeing, about a name. It seemed like he was unexpected because we didn't have a name for him. It took us awhile but we finally came up with a name that began with an "E." His initals actually turned out to be J.E.M. so that must have meant we called him by his middle name. (I too, go by my middle name instead of my first) After this I woke up...
I do want kids one day but that has been put off considering I haven't gotten married yet. I am seeing someone but I'm feeling insecure because of the newness of it all and wondering what direction its going and to top it off I haven't been in a relationship where I felt true love between both parties involved. I haven't been in a actual b/f g/f relationship in 3 years. Does anyone have any possible insight on this?
Thanks
2007-10-04 13:53:38 · 4 answers · asked by Sweet Honey 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I NOT interested in having a baby until I'm married. I'm only dating a guy, not with him trying to get pregnant. I just want to know what the dream means...
2007-10-04 14:23:26 · update #1
I was always told by older people that it means someone u knows is pregnant when u dream of having a baby or urself being pregnant or seeing a baby and u dont have one but in ur dream it is urs. I had them all of the time when any of my friends are pregnant and they dont even know it
2007-10-04 14:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by More then one on this account 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every dream has a specific, cryptic meaning. I've had some dreams that were so strange that if they meant anything, it was just that I'm crazy.
In this particular case, I'd guess you were just feeling a bit maternal, or were thinking of kids when you went to bed. Also, since you're in a new relationship and are wondering where it's heading, you could have simply been dreaming about one possible outcome.
I wish you luck, in love, life and the whole having kids thing.
2007-10-05 06:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes dreams can be answers to our inner desires...I believe. Your lack of fulfillment in a relationship could be the reason you are dreaming about a baby....to fulfill that need for love elsewhere. At least I think it was for me when I had my daughter at 20. The fact that this guy might not be your true love and that you are not in a relationship (married) with this guy could lead to shear disaster if you did decide to have a child.....possible custody and child support battles that can only lead to a crumble in the child's emotional well being. I was in this same situation....only I did have a child and my daughter is suffering because I didn't think what this situation would do to her. In my opinion....Wait....Wait..Wait. It will come when the time and the man is right :)
I wish you all the best. This is just my opinion but only you know what is right for you.
2007-10-04 14:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by lovililadi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams can sometimes become true but usually only if you make them and you believe that they will. If you are not married and not reddy for a child yet dont let "anthing" happen (if you know what i mean). Wait to make this one come true until you and your boyfriend are reddy. I would suggest not letting it happen until you are married but that is just my opinion. Well good luck figuring things out.
2007-10-04 14:01:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋