Whenever I am around my married friends, they are always talking about how their husband(s) give them expensive gifts on special occasions like diamond rings and going away to spa getaway weekends. I'm so sick and tired of them shoving their money and material belongings in my face and making me feel bad. My husband does things for me too, but we're on a budget and can't afford to throw couple of hundred dollars here and there. Ugh... it's just so frustrating! What should I do?
2007-10-04 13:46:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i was just like that but in different subject.like now im not studying in college and all my friends are.i was at first sad about it when they tell me about it and they always asked me 'oh when will u start college?'and it made so sad especially when some of them talk behind my back but at the end i told them that this is the fact and its my life and i love going to college but i cant.so what?so dont go telling me this and boast about it!!!and from them i knew who my real friends are.bcz the real ones always try not to talk about it and like its not a problem and they are natural but the bad friends i left them bcz they keep bothering me and i dont need that kind of person in my life to make me feel bad and like humilated
2007-10-05 00:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I realy dont think it's jealousy, sometimes you realy get tired of people been s o, the way they are showing off making smart remarks and bragging each time of the material stuft, they have; i don't see !why they want to do that because we sure can't take them any where but here. you just need to ignored them or tell them how there are hurting your feelings, and you and your husband are saving up some money so you guys won't be lacking any thing and if you can t' find the nerve to tell them i suggest ed you start lookingfor some friends , who realy care about you and understand you and stop taking advantage of you , thats how i see the situation, money is part of life but it's not every thing it can't buy you love. and if you are realy sick and if it's time for you to depart from this world all of the money in the world would not save you, so spent more time with your husband, he loves you and worried about your well been . your so call friends money is going to run out and then, they would be knocking on your doors, then you can remind them all what they have put you throug.h so don't be obstet and don't be mad nor irritated it would make you sick and just run your blood- pleasure up , so just find some thing better to do and maybe you just need to stay away from then, (finito) that mean finish, you take care silly rabbith and peace be with you and your husband, be bless,
2007-10-04 20:07:33 · answer #2 · answered by Rosalinda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm unable to chat to the specifics of your association consisting of your Therapist. i will show you how to comprehend scientific care at cases will intentionally make the matters uncomfortable. There are a pair of reasons for this. Therapist's comprehend that their sufferers frequently misinform them. they are additionally conscious the there sufferers are in many cases mendacity to themselves. it somewhat is critical get by way of this this is amazingly undemanding to get to the muse of the sufferers issues. i'm unable to assert which you at the instant are not being thoroughly actuality finished yet this is definitely an particularly undemanding situation. additionally i think of that via agreeing with all your recommendations and or behaviors could only strengthen the justifications how undesirable which you're feeling. i believe this guy or woman is making an attempt in some the thank you to alter your questioning to a minimum of a few thing this is useful which you will settle for and via doing so make you sense extra clever and likewise exchange your behaviors, If this guy or woman is sweet i believe this is the objective. whats up better of success Bob
2016-10-06 03:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would tell my friends straight out how I felt about the whole situation and ask them not to do what they are doing otherwise you will have to stop hanging around them. If they don't respect then simply don't hang around them that much and they will get the hint. and at the same time you should find people who are more like you so that you don't feel so bad about yourself and your situation either.
2007-10-04 13:51:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it bother you. They are materialistic and are passing by the real deal. What is important is what your husband does for you, not how much he spends for you. It's the attention that counts, not the price tag. Keep telling them what your husband did for you. You have a different life and it's quite alright.
2007-10-04 14:02:09 · answer #5 · answered by Miss T 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when they show you or talk about there fabulous gifts, tell them your husband gives you a gift more precious than money,and it makes you sparkle brighter than there diamonds..... his love!.....tell them it's every night too!...whether it is or not!...and don't forget to mention, robbers can take there shiny bling! and it don't keep them warm at night!...also, don't let all that make you feel bad! some woman need to have there love bought! react like it ain't nothing, cause it really ain't!....in all honesty, you are the one making yourself feel bad cause your jealous. don't be. the grass is never greener on the other side!~♥~
2007-10-04 14:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by nightmajic~♥~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find new friends. They aren't really friends if they're shoving your face in their possessions.
Money isn't the answer to eveything.
2007-10-04 13:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh you silly rabbit,
rise above it,
2007-10-04 14:47:33 · answer #8 · answered by Astro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they r not ur real frnds.
2007-10-04 14:00:19 · answer #9 · answered by Al Qiyamah{top lawyer inshAllah} 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋