How to live with a friend who is very selfish and can put u in any problem for own good?

Question

I live with friends who are very good to me but one of them is very selfish. He can put you in any kind of problem for his own benefit; specially when it is monetary matter. He won't spend a penny for you but would like that you spend all for him. I am unable to speak to him on these matters neither my other friends and I come n a tough situation when he says I have forgotten money in mid market and you have to help him out. I am also in difficulty due to my nature. We can't change mess as it is tough to get rooms here.He too is caring but this problem exists with him.

Answer 1

Cut him off and stop letting him take advantage of you. If you're mid market and he says he forgot his money...oh well, too bad, he doesn't get to eat...or start putting things back on the shelves, leave the basket...whatever. Tell him that you guys aren't going to buy anything until he has the money. Just put your foot down. He only does this, because you let him, so stop letting him.

Answer 2

Your bowing down to this guy and you call yourself "The King" LMAO!!!!! Your no king buddy, this situation proves that, fact is he is the king and your all his loyal subject, congrulation to your new leader there, to bad he is selfish, maybe next time pick a better person to run your life. Because buddy this is reduculous, you say caring? Huh yea right, you guys are just easily maniuplated into THINKING what he does is caring. And this fact you can't talk to him, is bs, you can talk to him, your just afriad of upsetting the real king, so really your all to blame..... you keep letting him get away with this, well you deserve it, shoot you might even like it. Sorry to be offensive but you should be FULL OF RIGHTEOUS ANGER at this fool for taking advantage of you, not thinking of nice compassinate way to manuplate him into stopping....