i really like this guy and he likes me back, but hes kinds well, i guess you could say "bad"...he smokes cigarrettes and pot but not around me and i refuse to be involved with it. he knows my morals and cares enough about me to respect them. he also failed tenth grade and is in all remedial classes but he is extremely sweet and kind. hes super funny and unbelievebly cute. we're suppoed to go out on saturday together but my parent would definetly dissaprove if they knew him at all...thoughts?
2007-10-04 13:23:59 · 5 answers · asked by Julia 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
I met one like that when I was16. He was fun, creative and had big dreams. He wanted to marry me when I was 18. I "gave" him to a girl (friend) that absolutely loved and adored him. They had 3 children.
It got to the place where she had to take his shoes off when leaving the house so he wouldn't wander the streets in a stuper.
Last I heard, he's now on his own, a homeless drug addict in San Diego. I feel sorry for him, but I would have felt more sorry for me, if I'd got pregnant the "first time around" and 'had' to married to him, like my friend did.
I hope that helps you make the right decision.
2007-10-04 14:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by Blank 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents do know what is best
I think if you have high morals you should stand by them
It could be like this you are walking down a road and on this road you have two paths to take
To the left could turn out to be a crooked wide path of trouble that will change your whole life and once you get there you can not turn back
The other path is straight but narrow however the rewards could be greater
For every door that closes a new door will open
At the end of the day they are your lessons to learn and it does not matter what anyone has to say you will do what you think is right even if it is wrong because you will be tempted by the forbidden fruit so to say
Love & Blessings
Milly
2007-10-04 20:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by milly_1963 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like the guy, then give him a chance regardless of his past
you just have to keep in mind that he does these thing, accept them, but you dont have to go along with them.
as always remember that if he dosent respect your morals, then hes not worth having.
If you love him as much as it sounds, give him a chance to show him he loves you, but if you see the bad side of him repeatedly and it makes you feel uncomfortable, then tell him.
Maybe this is enough to seperate you two, but based on personal experiece, if you love him enough, and he loves you back you can make it work for you
2007-10-04 20:35:24 · answer #3 · answered by beautifuller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man, i know what your talking about, he's so sweet isnt he? yeah, my guy too. never smokes or nothing when I'm around, and he really seems to care [really] but hey your guy likes you back, i wish i could say the same, but if i were in your shoes, I'd watch and observe... because if you havent been around him when he smokes and does pot, then you might see a different side of him, that you dont want to see. and believe me the suprise can be quite devestating...
2007-10-04 20:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like him and you don't think that being with him could actually harm you then go for it. but, if there's a chance of it hurting you (which there probably is seeing as he's a pothead)then i dont think you should. i don't think you should anyways..i mean he seems nice on the surface but most guys i've met who do drugs aren't. but, it's up to you. i guess you should follow your heart.
2007-10-04 20:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by rainyday<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋