and then several hours later, wished YOU HAD NEVER SAY ANYTHING AT ALL TO THEM.??!!!
2007-10-04 12:49:14 · 31 answers · asked by Kerilyn 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Kerilyn, I don't know what this question is about. Just wanted to tell you were right, and I've replied to your message.
2007-10-04 13:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by Darth Cheney 7 · 10⤊ 0⤋
I do it all the time... can't seem to take my foot out of my mouth. But somehow, I manage to attract the most loyal and interesting people on earth as my friends. I guess revealing exactly who I am, all the time, quickly lets people know whether or not they want to be my friend. So those who don't really like me as I am, leave me alone, and those who love me just as I am, truly know that they WANT to love a person like me.
The true friends gravitate to you easily when you are completely honest about how you think, etc. And you don't end up wasting your time with building friendships that will ultimately fail.
... But yeah, I say things that I regret all the time. I usually go back and apologise, which actually makes people warm up to you more, because they see more deeply into your character, and also feel safe to be themselves around YOU, too. (Mutual freedom to "be who you are". It's great.)
2007-10-04 13:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by MumOf5 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Definately. I thin everyone has.
Whats even worse is when you were only "friends" with them so you'd stay on their good side and they wouldn't be on your case like everyone else then it all turns downhill and half the girl population is your enemy. -_-
Though when I do say stuff like that to my true friends they end up laughing about it and stuff which makes it feel better.
What I hate is how I'll notice it like 3 hrs later and I'll start banging my head off something and feel so bad and worried. Normally I'll start to overthink it and stuff which is even worse.
It's a flaw though in humans so everyone should be able to understand... if you don't have flaws and stuff... just like this... then you would't be human!
2007-10-04 12:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-10-04 12:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by Bug Fuggy 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
All the time!!! Somethimes it doesn't hit you until hours later, and sometimes I know right when I say it that I'll regret it. But then I just go for broke, and end up regreting that too.
2007-10-04 13:08:19 · answer #5 · answered by Joel 2 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Of course that is why it is called hind sight. If I would of known then what I know now I would never have done it sort of thing. Sometimes it has to do with a secret you just have to tell someone problem is once you tell someone it is no longer a secret.
2007-10-04 12:52:59 · answer #6 · answered by debbie f 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh Yes ! And regretted it for many, many years ! That's the trouble with harsh words, their like Tooth Paste; once it is squeezed out of the tube, you can't put it back in.
Minister
2007-10-04 16:51:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I've also held my tongue and several hours later wished I'd spoken up! :))
2007-10-04 12:59:40 · answer #8 · answered by beano™ 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
There are limitless situational questions that as quickly as the respond is definite that's a bargain worse than no.case in point.Are you leaving me?Am I death quickly?Did you cheat on me? and so on.and so on.
2016-12-14 07:47:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say sometimes things to the ones I love and then I regret it. however I had never said something to them in bad intention. sometimes they understand it wrong and here where I regret it.
Do you mean me? its ok, I know you have big heart. :)
2007-10-04 23:19:17 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋