I read an essay on the Internet where somebody wrote "If I was bored it was my fault and no one else's . The obligation to amuse and instruct myself was entirely my own ." . I always figured if I think being single and unattached is boring, it's because I don't have a girlfriend, and I just don't like bars . I decided I need a relationship to sink my teeth into . I figured being without a girlfriend CAN'T be exciting . Am I wrong in thinking being without a girlfriend is boring ? If I'm wrong, how am I wrong ? Why do I think being single is boring ?
2007-10-04 10:43:36 · 5 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Because you CHOOSE to think that way. Is there a gun to your head forcing you to believe that you need someone? I doubt that.
You speak of a girlfriend as an object --- newsflash human chattel property went out of fashion in 1865. When you find an interest in something like a science, skill, or craft and you are so enthusiastic about that they you seek to share your knowledge and passion with others --- you will want to be with someone.
May I suggest some poetry: IF by Kippling, Annabelle Lee by Poe, and the Psalm of Life by Wordsworth all are on the net.
2007-10-04 10:52:48 · answer #1 · answered by KarenL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's one of those the grass is greener on the other-side things.
Wait until you are in a mundane relationship!!! There is nothing worse than to feel like you are stuck with someone.
2007-10-04 10:52:49 · answer #2 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wrong. Being single is awesome!!! Just get out and do fun things how about meetup.com or gosh just have FUN!!!! on your onw.
2007-10-04 10:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by ~~~Tara~~~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree, why can't there at least be one person who finds me attractive?
2007-10-06 14:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get laid, plain and simple
2007-10-04 10:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋