I just need some tips to become more beautiful and better.
2007-10-04 09:26:24 · 8 answers · asked by Rachel W 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Try being a better person: caring for those who have less than you... being kind-hearted to the needy.... adopting an abused animal....lending an ear to an elderly person.... giving up your seat to the disabled....
Work on your inside and your outside will shine.
2007-10-04 21:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly popularity is over rated... Focus on more important things in your life that will help you later. Not to sound so after school special, but seriously work on school, go some place good for college, and then get a good job. Make you future beautiful... Your insides are what make you beautiful, as external beauty always fades. Think about it, there are super smart 65 year olds, but there aren't really super hot 65 year old who look like they did when they were 16.
2007-10-04 17:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by Jyse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A popular person wouldnt ask this question so no i don't think your popular.
Beautiful- I've realised something as i walked through highschool and on the streets. People look the way they act...most of the time. Lesbian/Bisexual girls who act/dress/want to be boys tend to look like them whereas girls who don't smile and dress like they don't have alife have dull faces.
Just smile alot and be happy. People who don't smile alot, when they actually do smile it looks pretty weird.
Also, Make up is an accent, not true beauty so dont focus on makeup yet focus on your skin....unless you skin is already perfect.
Confidence is an essential to be popular. Nobody wants to hang around a shy,speechless/quiet, scared to take risks girl. Thats what they call boring. Be Brave! Take Risks! And Always be cheerful and happy! People like that, it makes them happy too!
Another Element to Confindence- Do not let people walk all over you. That is not popularity!!
I.E.
PopularGirl1-Carry My Books Crissy or you can't be my friend anymore!!
Crissy-Okay! (takes books)
An elementary type example...but this kind of stuff happens in middle school, highschool, and college but to a higher extent.
Also.. Pick your friends wisely. Hang out with people that have things incommon with you. You don't seem like the nerdish type so dont hang out with nerds.
Still, dont be a bully. Some populary girls are bullies to unpops which makes everyone below you on the pyramid of life (like a class system in society) hate your guts! Thats not the kind of popularity you want because someday someone might rebel on you. stick up for people getting bullied, but after your new found popularity begins.
2007-10-04 17:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by JustAnotherMarionette. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
popularity is about personality completely and being yourself. talking to others in a non-judgmental way (don't pretend to be non-judgmental coz people aren't silly) listening to others is important and people like you to make a fuss of them but DON'T kiss their *** or become a doormat. stop making excuses not to see people or talk to people and being unreliable can really make you unpopular, contact people if you are not going to make it or are going to be late. also make friends with different types of people but make sure that they are on your level, what i mean by this is don't make friends with bully girls if you aren't a bully coz it will clash and backfire (bullies have no friends they hang around with other bullies coz they are cowards and they all back stab each other)
remember though have friends but popularity isn't everything, stay true to your beliefs because in many years to come many people will respect you for it. i was open minded and helpful to quite a few people in the past and now they kiss my @ss and offer me money (i don't take it though) if this happens don't let it get to your head coz popularity can make some people big headed. good luck
2007-10-04 16:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by ♥SPARKLES♥™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.
Trusting in God, and living a spiritual life are the best ways of being more beautiful and a better person.
An experiment was done where participants were asked to look at a series of pictures. When pictures of Mother Teresa of Calcutta and Princess Diana of Wales were juxtaposed, over 90% of the participants noted that they remembered seeing a picture of Mother Teresa, but not of Diana.
Something to think about.
2007-10-04 16:32:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
My first tip is:
Screw what other people think of you. If you worry about that, you will only be miserable. Go get therapy to help you grow out of it.
2007-10-04 16:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey I dont know you so.... youre not popular in MY circle.
You need to be asking your PEERS and FRIENDS if you are popular. They'd be the ones to know.
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2007-10-04 16:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by Danger OReilly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does you being shallow and conceited begin here??? stop this vicious cycle. your next question is gonna be about eating disorders!
2007-10-04 16:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋