Everything is Brighter, People smile at you and talk to you...I don't get it...all I changed was my attitude
2007-10-04 09:14:57 · 10 answers · asked by ~~~Tara~~~ 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Thanks bobobo I'm not in love with anyone right now....I'm in love with Life itself :) Thanks :)
2007-10-04 09:28:50 · update #1
couldn't have done it without you guys :)
2007-10-04 10:51:19 · update #2
Because you are magically attractive when you are HAPPY-WOO-HOO!!! And you let people know that you are interesting and they want to be around you because they want what you have-a key to that undiscovered world of bliss we are all searching for!! Keep it up sweety!! :) Show them the way ;)
2007-10-04 15:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I felt the same way. Instead of moving, I took out a loan and went half way across the world for 4 weeks on a vacation with a friend. After about 2 weeks I missed home. I came home and felt the same way shorty after that, so I moved 200 miles away to go to school, thinking that would change my life. The lesson I learned is that moving to a different place isn't going to give you the change you are looking for. You have to change yourself, not hope something else will change you.
2016-04-07 04:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vedic philosophy (the philosophy of ancient India) teaches that "YOUR THOUGHTS CREATE YOUR REALITY" - literally - so your experience does not surprise me at all. The world around us is merely a reflection of our inner world, reflecting us back to us. I studied Ayurvedic medicine for 3 years, including psychology and philosophy, and this was the most important thing that I learned, in my education, and in my life... I consider it the secret to life...
If you are interested in this phenomenon, you will enjoy the book, "Secrets About Life Every Woman Should Know," by Barbara DeAngelis. It is a fun book to read, and full of this type of wisdom. (The bookstore can order it for you if they don't have it.) I know you would like this book, and it explains very clearly your experience...
Keep on bein' happy! :)
2007-10-04 11:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of people who use self-talk to handle what is going on inside their minds. When self-talk is not monitored cautiously it can lead to drastic effects not only on one’s personality but also affects its mentality and psychology. Self-talk is a type of conversation which we conduct with ourselves. In literature we call it soliloquy. Brain’s reticular activating system never forgets what we repeat again and again. Ironically this system can not recognize what is beneficial to the individual and what is not. Think you can, think you can't; either way, you'll be right- a saying goes like this. Therefore when ever we ‘talk’ with ourselves, we should be cautious, very cautious in fact. If I recall there is a book ‘self-talk solutions’ which is every effective in this scenario.
2007-10-04 09:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by b_banth 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Smiles are contagious, and so are attitudes. If you have a real sh!tty outlook on life, there aren't many people who want to be around you or associate with you.
The more at ease you are with the world around you, and the better attitude you have, the more people will want to respond to you and the happier you will be.
Sh!tty attitude = sh!tty treatment.
2007-10-04 09:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
JUst the fact that you smiled to people give you a smile back . And also when you are happy you are making yourself think that world is wonderful and that life is good . But when you are mad or sad it doesn't matter how much people smile and talk to you because you won't even notice it and you might feel that life sux.
2007-10-04 09:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Your attitude changes you perspective, which changes how you see the world.
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2007-10-04 11:47:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't top your first answer. He was right on the money. Life is about perception: what we feel inside...is reflected outside. Simple as that.
2007-10-04 09:42:41 · answer #8 · answered by dearreal 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Bethany,your answered already!
the world did not change....only your attitude!!!
fun isn't it!
2007-10-04 10:49:24 · answer #9 · answered by fretochose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20071002181551AAjR1mr
2007-10-04 09:24:00 · answer #10 · answered by momo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋