I love this girl, her name is Roxy. I like her a lot..i'm a girl. Okay i'm a lesbian woohoo..well It really hurts me that she has no interest in me like she wont even talk to me as much as she talks to everyone else.. I feel kinda of broken hearted. Like today in violin she was sitting in the middle of me and my friend (a girl) and she was talking to the girl more than me..but when she looked at me i smiled and she smiled..what should I do..should i just give up..Oh roxy isnt a lesbian, i made it seem like she is. She has a boyfriend..just like she talks to people more than me..
2007-10-04 08:51:29 · 16 answers · asked by Empty Hearted 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well like, I really like her and she doesnt know im lesbian, no one does actually. I just always ask for hugs from her, but also from everyone. But mostly from her. I really like her. I can't let someone go..I'd tell her i love her but..I don't want a rumor going around that im a lesbian..if she rejects me....i only known her for 2 weeks. I'm in grade 9
2007-10-04 09:21:45 · update #1
I doubt anyone would like me. Roxy has the prettiest face ever. And I kinda dress boyish..
2007-10-04 09:35:00 · update #2
but what if she is lesbian..or bisexual..or turns it if i tell her im lesbian......
2007-10-04 09:35:56 · update #3
We don't always get to be with the ones we're attracted to.
Welcome to Life 101.
Or you could always try to get to her by way of a threesome with her and her boyfriend...
2007-10-04 08:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You're in love with a "Roxy"? God help you. I'm a Roxy, and I'll tell you the name alone is a warning. Ignore her, that's the best way to get through to her. Don't be mean, just don't go out of your way to be nice. Or alternately, just be friendly with her. Just strike up conversation with her. One of those two plans should work. Though, I wouldn't bank on making anything more than friends for the time being. But sometimes being friends can open all new doors. Good luck with your Roxy!
2007-10-04 08:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by blue_devil 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on or get more broken up and stay broken up over this girl. You said she has a boyfriend. Let her go. It will only cause you more and more pain if you don't.
I am sorry. I know it hurts when we cannot be with the person we want to be with ... but staying in it makes it so much worse.
Source: The Voice of Very Painful Experience
2007-10-04 09:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well... gee... maybe she's uncomfortable with the idea of being friends with a lesbian. Doens't make her a bad person, doens't mean she can't like you.
Life is like that; no matter how hard you try you're not going to get everything you want. If you try, though, sometimes you'll get what you need.
2007-10-04 08:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The attraction you have is sweet and hard at the same time. Perhaps you will never know her as you wish. This type of attraction is always a risk your heart will be broken. Do you care to pursue risk or never know?
2007-10-04 09:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by m z 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Quit pining over a straight girl. You don't stand a chance and you are only wasting your time. Go find a lesbian.
2007-10-04 09:33:21 · answer #6 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If shes straight u will only end up getting hurt. I think u should just give up and just be her friend. U sound young and u have plenty of time to find a girlfriend :)
2007-10-04 09:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, you have my sympathy. i know it's painful, but you just can't *make* someone else love you, no matter what you do. she didn't downright despise you, so she probably just doesn't want to hurt you, or doesn't know how to approach you. it's certainly possible that you could be just friends.
everyone has gone or will go through what you are experiencing right now, so please don't feel alone in this. take your time to grieve, and then move on. but please don't keep your eyes fixed on a dead end. others will come, it's just a matter of time.
2007-10-04 09:03:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
get over it, you are going to have lots of crushes on people that will not give you the time of day.... enjoy the feelings but don't waste much energy on them or you will miss out on the greater chances of actually having a crush on someone that will like you back...
unless of course that is what you are really afraid of...hmmmmmmmmm
2007-10-04 09:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by howie r 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should probably move on to greener pastures. Let it go. If she has a boyfriend, she is probably srraight and not interested in you. SORRY. Keep looking for a girl friend, she is out there somewhere for you.
2007-10-04 08:58:52 · answer #10 · answered by the fnho 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
specific that's completely generic & there is not something incorrect with it & inspite of what the right this moment person up there someplace stated-that's maximum surely not a call neither is it led to with the help of something yet delivery.
2016-10-21 01:18:13 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋