Would you move a couple in your house if you had ??
Would you move a couple in your house if you had a one night stand with the man ? They would be moving in so the girl can watch my son while i am at work
no one knows but me and him . It was a onetime thing , though their may still be a bit of attraction . And i might be pregnant by him
Thats the thing i dont love my husband . I think I stay out of conveniance . I do love my boy though . and this one time my result in pregnancy i take the test next week
2007-10-04 08:36:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
by the way i am not married
my bf of 8 years is 45 yrs old . I just turned 23 10/1 so sorry if i may have drifted . i ma not a hoe or a slut i have only been with 3 men my entire life . So please understand that i am not doing this to harm him i do love him but he knows i am no longer happy he tells me to stay
2007-10-04 08:45:33 · update #1
for the man who suggested abortion i would never do that . A child is a gift of god and is meant to be here no matter how they got here.
2007-10-04 08:51:10 · update #2
She can watch your child without living under your roof. Are you not happy with your husband because of the other man? Why put temptation under nose? If you are unhappy with your marriage, end it FIRST, then go about your life so your husband can too.
2007-10-04 08:42:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! OK so what if u need help with babysitting that's not fair 2 her or ur husband stop being such a ***** u need 2 tell her so she can leave his stupid ***.. and u might be pregnant by him are u kidding we have so many things that can protect us from this huge mistakes, now and days u need 2 open a book . I am sorry 2 tell u this girl but u did ur man wrong and if ur there for " convenience " obviously u don't know how 2 choose men well ur with someone u don't love and hooked up with a loser who cant even afford his own place and has 2 live with the man u don't love . get out of there and leave everyone alone I hope ur not pregnant because it sounds like u have enough problems that baby does not deserve 2 be mothered by u.!!!
"GO TO THE JERRY SPRINGER SHOW " U will fit right in.
2007-10-04 15:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by BulletGirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmm... moving them into your house might be a mistake. Since there was something (and might still be something) between you and this guy, asking him and his wife to be in close contact with you every day is just asking for trouble!
I would think about divorcing your husband though, if you really don't love him like that. It'll be hard, but it's better than leading him on, letting him think that he's your world when he's really not even worth staying faithful to.
EDIT:
So uhm.. wait.. you were 14 when you started going out with him? and he was 37 or so? Hope you guys waited till you were at least 18 to start having sex, lol! (OMG ILLEGAL!)
Well, considering that you aren't married yet that would just make it easier to leave. Of course he wants you to stay; he's hooked a girl who's over 20 years younger than him! That's a middle aged mans dream (I suppose..). But I think it really would be best for both of you if you thought of leaving with your son. When there's no love left then... why stay?
2007-10-04 15:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by Missy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a good idea because it will allow too many opportunities for it to happen again and in a short time both marriages will be destroyed. If you do not love your husband then get a divorce, if the other man has marriage problems as well he can also get a divorce then the two of you can do as you please. Cheating is never right when you are married, that is why we have divorce. What are you going to do if you are pregnant as that is going to present a new set of problems even if you decide to terminate the pregnancy.
2007-10-04 15:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by K K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cythia, you screwed up bad... but the worst thing you could do to your family, is let them move in. Avoid temptation, dont encourage it. If there are even the slightest feelings, and he moves in, it will be no time at all before your husband figures it all out. You either need to tell you husband, and let him decide if its okay for them to still move in, or decide that for your family's sake, honestly is not best, and get that man out of your life. Theres no chance he can live with you, and your husband wont see it.
2007-10-04 15:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by Koozie the chemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need therapy. Not an insult just a suggestion. Seems like you make poor life choices. Maybe you should get a handle on why and then you could be happier and make better choices.
And no, I would not move another couple in my home. I would take my child to daycare. You are just inviting more problems into an already troubled home.
2007-10-04 15:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by James Watkin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
moving another couple into your home is normally a bad idea... there will be inconveniences, and could even be conflicts. other people don't live like we do, so there could be messes, neglect and intrusion.
why don't you do yourself a favor and get out of this marriage? if you dn't love your husband, why be miserable.
you really could consider getting yourself and your life together and making a clean slate... the situation with this other couple contains too much drama...
2007-10-04 15:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let them move in. Big mistake! Never let anyone move in with you. You will be tempted to commit adultery and you may have a really hard time getting them to move out.
You must honor your wedding vows. For better or worse, in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer until death do us part. Love is a choice.
Make your marriage better.
2007-10-04 15:49:01 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might as well move them in so your husband can bang the baby sitter.
You guys can just switch beds at night.
2007-10-04 15:48:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.....why would you want to have them move into your house...knowing you sleep with her man....and you honestly want to ask her to watch your kid(s)??? tell me you are kidding!!!!! do you know what a woman's intuition is??? sooner or later that other woman is going to get that and put two and two together and honey it doesn't equal 4!!!! if you don't love your husband give him up...so that way a girl who deserves a good man can have one....and you really are taking up his time and feelings...Karma will come around to you and i pray to god that you are pregnant and have to go on the Maury show and revel that you are a $lut.
2007-10-04 15:43:10 · answer #10 · answered by $martA$$.com 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋