have you ever told someone you didn't want to be with them anymore but yet you still want that person around and still want to kiss or hug them??? ...and have sex with them??? if so why??
2007-10-04 07:57:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Cuz
Usually it's because it's just not a good idea to be with the person, love isn't everything in a relationship, but it sure does make things difficult
2007-10-04 08:00:21 · answer #1 · answered by Kathi 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I've told a person that I didn't want to be with them and then kissed them the next day. It wasn't attention seeking but it seemed right at the time. I didn't end up with them so he was never my boyfriend but we both fancied each other at the time. We didn't have sex though. We weren't that stupid! It felt exciting at the time having this on/off relationship with a guy but its wrong and really I was just messing him around. I can't say sorry enough to him anymore.
2007-10-04 08:04:39 · answer #2 · answered by MedGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah (I didn't want to have sex with him and I quit accepting any form of physical contact), but the only thing I can come up with is that the heart is trecherous and deceiving. Because I really have no idea what would make me want to be around such a jerk, but thank goodness I put a stop to it. If you are trying to break away from someone you have to stop with physical contact because it fosters false feelings. If you aren't touching at all and you still have these feelings, it's different.
2007-10-04 08:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by user u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,I have and it was very painful,I did it because of my kids ,see I was married to a cheating abusive husband ,so I divorced him,after a year I met my current husband,but before we got married we were leaving together,but my kids started to behave bad (12 & 14 at the time)a lot of peopple said that it was because I moved in with him so soon,I laugh because I met him a year later after my divorce and we dated for 13 months before we moved in together,but still I told him to that it was best if he moved out and just see each other every other weekend,so we talked and he was very understanding and he told me that he'll always be around for me I started crying tears came out of his eyes when he was packing his things,thank god my kids came to their sences and it was the 12 yr old who said to me "Mom don't let him go,he is not the problem we are the ones giving you and him a hard time,sorry" I was crying lauder,my husband came in the room and I huged him,I told him what was going on,so 10 months later we got married and 7 years later here we are and he has never left my side.
2007-10-04 08:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by emerald 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No..I've told someone that I wanted to kiss, hug, etc. that I didn't want them around. Who does?
2007-10-04 08:00:10 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Jack Sparrow ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are certain relationship which actually work better without all the effort of being a couple. It's called a friend with benefits.
2007-10-04 08:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by solomonfever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but it's because you are so use to having that person around and you won't feel as comfortable with someone else as you do with them, they know you and your quirks!
2007-10-04 08:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by Bert 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and I banged her while dating others for 3 years.
2007-10-04 08:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember you can't have your cake and eat it too. Either you want to be with them, or for their sake, cut the ties. Don't string someone along if you don't have feelings for them.
2007-10-04 08:07:16 · answer #9 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because we have better things to do with our time than waste time with their drama. An occasional romp in the sack is fine to get my jollies.
2007-10-04 08:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋