Without being traced to him or without any harm to his children
2007-10-04 07:56:50 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dont stoop to that level !
2007-10-04 07:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Revenge can be a double edged sword... Of all the times my idiot IQ of a throw rug ex thought that I was cheating and was NOT, he tried to exact his revenge. One time he called my "prospect" (which was actually a legal client who's number I'd stored in my cell phone) to confront him. As it turned out, he was a police officer who'd been a witness to an accident and wasn't able to be deposed at the PD because it didn't happen during his work shift. My ex almost went to jail that night...he...he...he... Another time he began stalking the boyfriend of a friend of mine who became so sick of it, the he photoshopped a picture of my face onto a picture of a porn star's body and emailed it to my ex's work. Again, my ex was in the wrong and her boyfriend had every right to be pissed and play a little joke of his own. But honestly, of all the stupid times he thought I was cheating and tried to exact revenge, the one thing that hit me the hardest was the disappointed look of despair and sadness he gave me whenever he thought I was doing a little somethin' somethin'... Sometimes what's not said can speak volumes. Then again, he could put her jewelry in the disposal, pawn everything he ever gave her, spray paint her clothing, change the locks, put blue dye in the shower head, replace her conditioner with hair remover and cancel the Lifetime Network. But it will only show that he's taking it personally and that she got to him.
2007-10-04 08:25:47 · answer #2 · answered by maggieeld 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No revenge. They need to sit down and talk about the situation. Work things about like adults .. not some teenagers in high school. If they can't work it out, then they need to separate. Revenge is never the answer. Never ever the answer!!
2 wrongs NEVER make a right .. unless you're an immature little teenage, then just got with the revenge, not like you will listen anyway, ha.
Seriously.
2007-10-04 08:00:45 · answer #3 · answered by Hillary = NO CHANGE! 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Revenge is rarely the thank you to flow. i grew to become into cheated on. I divorced him, i'm dealing with counseling, yet i comprehend that if I have been to a approach or the different "get revenge" it does not do me any solid, i could nevertheless be in soreness and he could nevertheless be an @ss. Revenge does not substitute something for the extra powerful, it fairly is going to in elementary terms make issues worse. If somebody is wronged, they could desire to in elementary terms forgive, flow on and stay their lives.
2016-11-07 06:26:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to be happy and live life to the full and don't let a cheating partner spoil it
2007-10-04 09:09:10 · answer #5 · answered by kittens 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u never want to seek revenge because it keeps u tied to that person and the unhappiness forever. best to get out of the marriage with as much dignity and self worth as u can, and move on showing the person who hurt u that your bigger than what they did to u, and their plan to destroy u did not work. any revenge hurting another would almost always be automatically traced to a hurt spouse, because who would have the most motive here? someone who felt hurt.
2007-10-04 08:29:18 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best thing she can do is get her hair done, enjoy some time with her mates, hit the gym and not give him a second thought I believe thats the best revenge
2007-10-05 00:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by betty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it necessary to get revenge? Why not move on and forget her? Ignore her, let her do her thing, move on without her. She has set herself up for whatever the future holds and will have to live with it. If he wants to live dangerously he could go out and get an STD and pass it on to her so she will give it to her boyfriend.
2007-10-04 08:27:51 · answer #8 · answered by K K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't encourage someone to get revenge over something that its probably both their fault. Revenge is a dark feeling, that can poison them and make them do things they really dont want to. Just let time cure whatever it needs curing, and it will show a nicer face to both.
Good luck!
2007-10-04 22:31:40 · answer #9 · answered by Sesoid 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The revenge that you are thinking of is not good.....its immature and foolish. The best revenge is to move on with his life and never look back....and never let his partner see the pain they caused.
2007-10-04 08:01:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he feels he'd rather get revenge than resolve things with her then he's just as bad as her and they should both be taking a long hard look at the kind of people they are.
2007-10-04 21:18:03 · answer #11 · answered by silverfoxdmt 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋