Don't really want to go into details. Everything from sister-in-law stealing my debit card to several deaths in my immediate family. Thanks.
2007-10-04 07:32:43 · 34 answers · asked by Fool in the Rain 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
My sister-in-law isn't usually left alone in our home. She stole my husband and I's debit card just a few days after their brother was killed. We were trying to keep her from doing anything stupid so she stayed at our house.
2007-10-04 07:42:14 · update #1
I'm very sorry to hear of that. Some of it is beyond your control, like death. Those just take time to heal. As for your sister-in-law, you need to fight back. Take her to small claims court and recoup that money. Don't allow yourself to be the helpless victim, take action. In the meantime, do whatever you can to keep your sanity. Don't deprive yourself of having a good time to take your mind off reality. The important thing is to stay positive and keep working to get your life going the way you want. Never give up.
BTW, prayer doesn't solve real-life issues, individuals do.
2007-10-04 07:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by Rckets 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
First thing--stay away from sister-in-law. Sorry about the deaths in your family. Just sit back for the ride, everyone has these bumps in the road...it does and will get better. Just stay focused and continue as normal as you can with a smile on your face. These trials always makes you a better person down the road. Who knows, you may be going through this in order to help someone else in the future.
2007-10-04 07:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by Alliance Kicks Horde Butt 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
When things are going badly, it's hard to notice the positive things happening in your life. However, it's important to keep those positives in mind.
Knowing that your pain and problems will diminish with time can also help, but it's hard to see the future when nothing is going your way in the present.
2007-10-04 07:37:26 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Life ... and death happens. You need to grieve or get counseling if your grief is overwhelming you.
I have had 3 deaths in 4 months, one of which was a horrible suicide.
As far as people stealing from you, now you must take control over things. Don't let these people in your life or give them access to things they can take.
If you don't take control over yourself and your life then you will always be a victim.
2007-10-04 07:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by grannyzattic 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
i get upset and more i keep on thinking abt it, i get more upset.Then i realise that there is no point crying n crying,infact after some point ,tearsglands also dry.
Then I accept the situation or u can say i hv to, n then take it as something which i cant control n try to move further.
The cycle is repeated when something like that happens again.
U cant do anything but accept the reality.
2007-10-04 07:39:34 · answer #5 · answered by sweet n simple 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First, I sit down and let out all the sadness inside me when I'm alone [peacefully though] and then I think what's going wrong and I try to rectify if I made a mistake and if I can't help it, I let time and my fate decide it for me.
2007-10-04 07:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by ®$ingh $harapova© 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Like the song says "If you're going through hell keep on going you may get out before the devil even knows you're there" or something like that. It's a great song. Good luck
2007-10-04 07:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You go through trials, not around them, and wait for the sunshine to come again. It'll be coming before too long.
Every-ones life is full of happiness, pain, joy and sorrow.
I am sorry for your loss though.
Good luck.
Peace.
2007-10-04 07:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Think of it as your strength being tested. So try to stay strong.
Life have a way of changing things around (sometimes with your help). Try to think positively and do not dwell because it saps your strength and your resolve.
Blessings.
2007-10-04 07:41:31 · answer #9 · answered by Dinah f 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Do something that makes you happy, that clears your head and helps you relax. I do a few miles running if I'm stressed it helps me clear my head. Try and do things to take your mind off everything.
2007-10-04 07:37:37 · answer #10 · answered by :] 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋