I cannot ofr the life of me understand these men who are gay who are capable of sleeping with women. I mean, how? The physical part - ya know? I just dont get it. And, not bi-sexual men - gay men.
2007-10-04 07:05:50 · 18 answers · asked by Kyle 4 Ty (Sparkles can watch) 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
it must be a miserable life
2007-10-04 09:03:50 · answer #1 · answered by tasty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this may come as a surprise but a gay man can find love with a women and decide it is the life he wants to lead to have children and not be a disappointment to his family. Its sad and I feel sorry for these men, but it happens all the time. Not all married couples have sex after the first few years and some not even that much.. so is it possible.... of course it is.. why does it happen... cause life is cruel and people are scared...
2007-10-04 07:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well a gay man might but he may well be pretty unhappy with his life if he so blatantly goes against who he is.
One thing to remember though is that up until recent times it was totally unacceptable to be gay so many gay men went through the motions of dating, marrying, having kids and all that so they woudl be normal and accepted. and in some areas they still feel compelled to do that.
2007-10-04 16:36:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it happens all the time. Being gay is so taboo. These are the men that are miserable, only have sex with the lights off and don't relate to their wives, and live in a fantasy world. There are tons of them!
2007-10-04 07:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by Mary A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe they can. It will get to the point where it is too hard for them to continue living life this way. I get very upset when I hear of these men doing this to women. Maybe they don't do it intentionally, but they know down deep it will never last.
2007-10-04 07:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by Paula D 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Im sure it happens all the time.I use to work with a gay guy who was married with 4 kids,he said he loved his wife,but would rather be with a man.I dont know if he ever slept with a man.
2007-10-04 07:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie R 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course they *can*, but you'd have to ask yourself why they'd want to. Perhaps your definition of 'gay' is the problem - Kinsey's ideas on sexuality are a good place to start if you're really interested in this issue.
2007-10-04 07:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by SS 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im sure they could but what kind of life would that be. Im sure they think of guys while they are doing it. I hear women talk all the time about sleeping with their husbands and thinking of other ppl. Im sure it works the same for gay guys trying to live straightly. The bottom line to me is we have such short lifespans, why lie to others and ourselves while we are here.
2007-10-04 07:10:38 · answer #8 · answered by pandasex 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
A true gay man has no interest in women. They are not attractive to him. Actually, the female organ is repulsive to a true gay man.
A man who has sex with women and men can do so because he is bisexual.
You are getting gay confused with bi.
2007-10-04 07:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I guess they can if they are denying their true nature
2007-10-04 07:09:40 · answer #10 · answered by Jon 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋