i had sex at a boys house nd im 12. i fink i pregnant and cant tell my mum wot i did wot shall i do?
2007-10-04 05:24:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If this is really true and you're really a 12 yr. old girl then you have to tell her that's the only thing you can do.
2007-10-04 05:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by Regina 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry. First of all if you are old enough to have sex then you should know what prevents pregnancy. You don't have any rights as a 12 year old so you should come clean and tell your mom RIGHT AWAY!! She may be mad at first but you are her baby... she is going to take care of you.
WHen you act like an adult then sometimes you have to learn some hard lessons really early... coming clean with your parents is part of growing up. Sorry now you don't have a choice.
2007-10-04 12:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by crissygirly 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you remember your last mentrual period... you can take a home pregnancy test up to 5 days before your missed period (with an ept) But no earlier, because the pregnancy hormones won't show up.. try doing it first thing in the morning, when the levels are the highest. and if you are pregnant, talk to someone at a family planning, or something along those lines.. but your best bet would be to tell your mother, I've been there... and as scary as it was, it was the best thing i could have done.
2007-10-04 12:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by Kay 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You absolutely have to tell your mother. You're not ready in any way for a child, and you need to have your mother help you make the right choice for you.
Also, you're waaaaaaaaay too young to be having sex. Don't have sex again until you're ready to take care of a child! Get yourself educated about protection, and birth control choices once you are ready.
2007-10-04 12:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by coolteamblt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to tell your Mom sooner or later if you're pregnant. Better to tell her sooner and get it over with. Yeah she's going to be upset but she's your mom and she loves you she'll get over it. Hopefully though you've learned your lesson from this. 12 is way too young to be having sex and I really hope for your sake you're not pregnant. If you want to find out if you're pregnant before your talk to your Mom take a pregnancy test. Your Mom and your doctor will want you to take one too when they find out.
Good luck to you!
2007-10-04 12:46:19 · answer #5 · answered by bluidangel76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TELL your mother. You are 12. She may be upset but she is the best person that can help you with this. Then wait until you are wayyyy older to have sex again.
2007-10-04 16:32:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey I'm sure your quite scared. However you can't go through this alone. It puts YOUR health and your babies at risk IF you are pregnant. It could be EXTREMELY dangerous for you.
Can you get to your doctor?? Many doctors would see you for that without your mother present. Perhaps you can go to the health departemnt or get a prenancy test to know first??
If you can't tell your mother, is there someone you CAN tell and maybe they can tell your mother?? I am sure she is going to be shocked at first and maybe have a reaction but keep in mind most likely it will be FEAR for you. That will pass and then you will have her support and right now thats what you need if you are pregnant.
If you are not pregnant, will you do me a favor?? Will you remember how you feel RIGHT NOW, so you don't ever find yourself in this position again?? Your to young honey and you DO HAVE the rest of your life for sex and these kinds of scares. Enjoy being 12. Don't jump over these wonderful years in life by having your own child. Wait until YOUR ready.
Please find away to get yourself tested so you know and if you are pregnant please find away to tell your mother so your own health is not at risk. You are much to young to do this without help.
Please email me (loriwild@yahoo.com) if you just need someone to talk to for ANYTHING. I have 4 children and several who just call me mom. Always room for more, so if you need anyone I'd be happy to be here for you sweetie. I don't see getting pregnant as making you a bad person.........females get pregnant every day. I just think its a BAD CHOICE at your age......... You need supported. I am definaterly here if you need a stranger to talk to that feels safe to you to open up to. ~HUGS~
Don't go through this alone!!!! I am even willing to tell your mother for you if you need someone to........don't put your number on here publically if you need someone to tell your mother for you, I will send you "my number" for her to call. You can tell her there's an adult who needs to speak to her about something. DON'T just give your number out to strangers!!!
2007-10-04 12:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by savahna5 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell Mom. She is best equipped to help you. She may be upset at first but I'm sure she'll also be glad you were honest with her.
THEN, consider this a lesson learned and wait until you're more mature to have sex again.
2007-10-04 12:28:29 · answer #8 · answered by iittghy? 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath.
If you can't tell your mum, find another trusted adult, like perhaps the counselor at your school.
Planned Parenthood will also help if you can get to them.
2007-10-04 12:31:14 · answer #9 · answered by alanastarkey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1st, pray that you are not pregnant. 2nd...What the heck were you thinking? You just stopped playing dolls last year!
3rd, please tell someone older so you can get a pregnancy test to make sure.
4th, don't have sex again until you are old enough to take care of a child and use protection when you do!
2007-10-04 12:30:45 · answer #10 · answered by noseygirl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋