I am in mid my 30's and what I want to know is does anybody know any one who has left what appeared to be a good marriage (before mid life crisis) got together with a younger chick or continued in a swinging type lifestyle after the divorce and actually confessed to being happier and fullfiled.
2007-10-04 01:16:12 · 4 answers · asked by mystery639066 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I never met anyone who claimed to be happier after embarking on their narcissistic quest. In fact the men I know who have done what you have described, don't claim to be unhappy either. One thing is for certain though --- every one of their lives appears to be in a downward spiral.
2007-10-04 01:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by mt75689 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
specific. i'm nonetheless in direction of mine. i became in a bad 18-3 hundred and sixty 5 days marriage with 3 infants. i became coming up on 40 and purely knew that i became lacking what i needed and had to discover the thank you to be fulfilled. i ultimately ended the undesirable marriage and moved out to a distinctive city mutually as my little ones finished the college 3 hundred and sixty 5 days and lived with their dad. I met a awesome guy who has the time to wreck me emotionally and bodily and he makes me have faith in love - the type this is unconditional and could final for something of our lives. we've been exceedingly happy and nicely suited for the final 9 months. So, i'm very happy there. We moved at the same time to nonetheless yet another city and whilst my infants are out of school in yet another 3 years, we seem forward to retiring, paying for a boat and residing aboard. I never relatively have been given plenty excitement from working or college, even with the undeniable fact that i'm a school graduate, so as that did no longer hassle me plenty - so some distance as no longer assembly profession targets, etc.. For me, it became very own issues. I gave myself a makeover final 3 hundred and sixty 5 days and could undergo 3 plastic surgical technique next month, which i'm hoping will provide me the delight bodily that I crave so some distance as my mid-life discern. So, no, i do no longer think of which you're in any respect unusual on your thoughts. It';s purely the way you ought to artwork them out. for my section, i needed the attention, you in all probability do no longer. you nonetheless have lots of time to fulfill your different targets even with the undeniable fact that, and as quickly as you start off in that path, i'm extraordinarily specific the thoughts of incompleteness will pass away. attempt to make a itemizing of the failings that subject you and artwork down it. somewhat progression will pass an prolonged way in direction of resolving your thoughts.
2016-10-10 07:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't. And if you're in your mid 30s and you think you're in midlife, you have some serious problems. I would submit that you're just an overgrown adolescent who needs to grow up and wake up.
2007-10-04 01:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't know for sure but i think i'm about to find out. It might turn out great or maybe just sum wild fun for a while but for the time ....boy toys are great...
2007-10-04 01:33:05 · answer #4 · answered by miss v8 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋