I am 15 yrs old and i go to an all girls school. i dont go to parties or anything so i never see any guys, even as friends. atm all my friends have started to go out with guys and such but i dont see the appeal. I dont want to date a lot because boys my age are so immature i was gunn wait until like uni so i can have a real relationship. Am I immature for not dating or very mature for not dating atm?
2007-10-04 01:00:50 · 31 answers · asked by soph_elizabeth 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
it is very respectable and admirable what you are doing. you seem very mature for your age, and you are right about boys your age, they need a little bit longer to mature.
you are your own person, you make your own decisions. and no that doesn't make immature for not dating. you will know when youre ready to date. don't rush it, there is no need to. youre young and have your whole life to date and party and what ever else.
2007-10-04 03:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by k-dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. there is no such thing as normal. 2. Everyone is different. If you feel that the fellas are too young emotionally for you, then your are a pretty smart young lady. Teens today are in too much of a hurry to grow up. Have fun, take your time, study. Chances you find your soulmate at 15 are slim to none. Focus on yourself and not what EVERYONE else is doing. Live YOUR life for you and not anyone else. Take your time and actually grow up and enjoy what you can.
2007-10-04 08:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by lnbeem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as you being normal, I really hope not. The one thing that you need to look at is what is best for you at this time. Don't worry about what everyone else is doing. I will let you in on a not so secret secret, Boy's will always be immature. When you get older in time you may find a way to over look this aspect or it will become a cute kind of attractive thing. I hope this helps you out. Remember, BE GOOD TO YOU. You are the only one that will.
2007-10-04 08:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by cjw5971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, let me say that I am a high school guidance counselor, so I see issues like this quite frequently. Second, I wouldnt classify your choice to not date as anything but your personal preference.
If you feel that the boys your age are too immature then that is strictly your business and the opinions of others are irrelevant. Live your life as you see fit and don't worry about what others think about it. As long as you are a law abiding, responsible and decent individual whatever else you do is nobody else's business.
2007-10-04 08:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by ITeech68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, you're not being immature. : )
When you date someone, that means you are looking to marry that person. And I'm sure that 15 years is way to young to think about marriage. So you're doing yourself a good thing by not dating because you're also saving yourself from alot of trouble. And like you said, you're going to wait to have a real relationship, that's how things should be. Good job! ; )
2007-10-04 09:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by Popcorn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People mature at different rates.
It would help to socailise with more guys as in the real world its mixed.
Even if just as guy mates. Learn to understand guys. ie yes they are all facinated with boobs and wanting to see girls naked. But it does not mean they dont want girl mates too or that they disrespect girls.
Many may start going out with someone as they are sexy then as spend time get to know them as a specail cuddle friend too.
Likewise you dont have to have sex striagth away but if you like someon progress slowly and at yoru own pace with wahts comfortable.
Also when guys hang out with girls they get to understand them too and that you can go yum yum that rock star is cute too.
Often people end up dating a specail mate.
Also whan a guy is all awkard and sy around you or trying to b touchy or show off may mean he really likes you.
Also girls often date older guys and guys mature a lot slower then girls.
So do whats happy but dont be alone either. realtioships are the most passionate 15-19
also you dont have to drink
2007-10-04 08:20:06 · answer #6 · answered by Merlin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just you and you're normal. I don't go to parties either, only because i never get invited and all my so called friends just leave me out as my feelings don't matter to them. But don't worry you will find your first date soon, everyone does in the end. You're qiute mature and must be very smart not to go out yet as boy's your age are to imature to think about you and at that age all they think about is sex and stuff (they're perverts at that age). I'm the same too so don't worry
2007-10-04 14:52:12 · answer #7 · answered by Chesh » 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is notthing wrong with you at all!You are a teen that used to be teens.When i was your age i never new at all about dating although all my friends were dating,while i still played with babie dolls.Parting and all that was just not for me,and i think it was and still is the staffest that way.
your time for dating will came to you when you feel and are ready,you have whole life ahead of you.Concentrate on your studies,that will only better your future.
2007-10-04 08:13:14 · answer #8 · answered by yoli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was just like you at your age. I also started to worry, but I didn't go to a all girl school. I just thought all guys we're too childish and if I was going to date it was going to be serious. I really didn't have my first big relationship till I was like 18 and in college.
And I would say your thinking with your head more than your mature.
2007-10-04 08:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by stupidvixen24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your you
Although in my opinion i guess that is a smart idea but i mean i would probably say maybe date or go out because staying in a all girls school might bother you if you see the same gender 24/7 for the next few years you go to the school.
yea anyway so your mature in my opinion but just have fun
2007-10-04 21:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by Xue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋