What can i do when i see people who just take from me and then they laugh behind me?
2007-10-04 00:48:49 · 9 answers · asked by Paco 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all stop feeling sorry for yourself. Have a little more self-confidence. No one respects a sniveling weakly. I know because I've been there. I use to be the champ when it came to feeling sorry for myself. What you need to do is to start feeling more self-confident without being arrogant. That's a fine line to walk but when you do people respect you a lot more.
I think you need a change of scene as well. It's my experience that when people have an opinion of you it's hard to change. So tell these people that are using you what you think of them. Odds are they will be upset by this and will think you're crazy or stupid, but people always react that way when someone decides to stand up for themselves. They are used to using you and they will feel threatened by you calling them out on their actions.
Doing this means that you will have very little friends for a while, until you make new friends and those friends will respect you a lot more because you will have demanded that they respect you. "Demand" always in your attitude never overtly.
Best of luck to you.
2007-10-04 00:58:30 · answer #1 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Paco, it is better to know that you are good, even if the others are teasing you. Sometimes people are laughing to that which they cannot achieve. And you are innocent like a child, clean, and many times in your answers I find a new fresh kind of logic. Do not mind if others are laughing. In Greece we say "He who laughs at someone, he is really laughing at himself fist".
Think of that.
I really enjoy your answers and I know many people here, love you a lot and are looking for your answers.
2007-10-04 11:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by Alice in Wonderbra 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel that you should confront them (the people who are laughing about you/using you) about this situation. Do it politely and try not to offend anyone. Remember, talk things out. If things are what you think them to be then stop giving. But sometimes things may not be what they seem and people do not always appear so simple. If what you say turns out to be true, I suggest you stop giving. Choose who you work with. Friends who are true to you will never do that.
2007-10-04 07:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by whoopeedoodeedoo! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who can use Paquito?You must wake up and see who is your friend and who not...
Those who laugh with you, dont have your intelligence and your heart...So, search the good ones and throw away the others
2007-10-04 07:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by Leonarda 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from those kind of people. Stay with like minded people who give you happiness and joy and make you feel good about yourself. Or else be on your own and love and respect yourself.
2007-10-04 07:52:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come on Paquito, come to me, and you ll never be disappointed
2007-10-04 14:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by Renata 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
simple! just don't give! you're trusting people too easily. it should be two-way, they get there way, but you should too. make sure you'll receive, when you give.
2007-10-04 08:02:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey dear friend .try to know who is your friend and who isnt,,and you are always a close friend to many in yahoo ,we are your virtual friends ,,
2007-10-04 07:56:49 · answer #8 · answered by reifguy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So when you can realize this you should know what to do..Stop giving.
2007-10-04 07:52:01 · answer #9 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋