Who is the father? Help!!?
Please don't judge..I am wondering if anyone could help..I am 5 months pregnant but confused. I had unprotected sex with my ex who definately did not ejaculate, this was a few days after my period had ended. two weeks later i was with my new guy and we were naked but did not have intercourse only foreplay. The tip of his penis entered about an inch but there was no intercourse and as there was foreplay goin on possibly could have been pre *** on it. This was a week before my period was due. The problem im havin here is that i wouldnt have thought i could get pregnant from either of these occasions and my pregnancy date of conception from scan is bang in the middle of these 2 events. How am i to kno which one got me pregnant? What do you think? HELP!!
2007-10-04 00:45:55 · 16 answers · asked by Mya G 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
first day of last period was 8th maysaw 1st guy around they 17th and the 2nd around the 29th ??????
2007-10-04 00:53:30 · update #1
There's no absolutely 100% way of telling, unless you have a DNA test. Or if the fathers are of different racial origins (eg Asian or black) you could wait until the baby is born and after a few weeks see if a racial heritage becomes obvious.
Thanks for the dates but the length of your average cycle would be useful as well, as women tend to ovulate about 14 days BEFORE their next period is due.
2007-10-04 00:53:48 · answer #1 · answered by SydneyMum101 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is your 4th time asking this in the last 24 hours. Why is it that you ask questions on here and then don't believe any of the answers you get??? There is NO WAY that anyone can answer your question with 100% certainty. ONLY a DNA test can tell you for sure.
But, AGAIN, I think it's the first guy since your scan said you conceived between the two dates. You dont' seem to know anything about sex, but it's possible that you had sex with the first guy but the sperm didn't meet the egg for a while afterward - thus your scan date would be later than the date you had sex.
2007-10-04 08:20:35 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs.P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your ex is probably the father but there is no way to know for sure. Get a dna test after the baby is born. Do the guys know that you are pregnant and have you told them both that he may not be his? I hope that this all works out for you. I'm not judging you but I hope that you learn from this and try to be more careful next time. Good luck.
2007-10-04 08:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by angelamc31 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds more like it is your ex who is the father as you cant have a conception date that is before the event has happened, ie with your new partner. But the only way to know for def is a dna test after the baby is born
good luck
2007-10-04 07:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by allielea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HI, this is a really difficult one as the only real way you'll find out who the father of your baby is by having a dna test. Your x could be the father as he may have ejaculated or have pre*** inside you. I think you should have a dna test after its born.
2007-10-04 07:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by jaineelyse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
precum could of got in you from the first guy and it is possible to get pregnant without intercourse go on maurryyy or have a DNA test ....
2007-10-04 10:21:21 · answer #6 · answered by Weezy's 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say ur ex is the baby's father. HOWEVER.... I suggest a paternity test is performed once the child is born to clear all doubt.
I wish u a healthy pregnancy, AND A HEALTHY baby.
2007-10-04 08:24:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds a whole lot more likely to be your ex's babny because you said it weas im the middle of these two times. even if you had intercourse and he didnt *** there could have been pre-*** (that is enoguh to populate the whole of scotland)
2007-10-04 09:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do whore is to get a DNA test when the baby comes out.
2007-10-04 09:14:31 · answer #9 · answered by MAGA2020 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are going to have to get a DNA test because there is no possible way to tell other than that. I would hate to be in your shoes right now
2007-10-04 08:43:04 · answer #10 · answered by Antinitra B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋