want to be treated differently or felt sorry for? you don't want to be singled out
2007-10-04 00:11:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Yeah, i understand how you feel, this used to be the same for me. But one thing you need to realise is that they are trying to be supportive, they're showing empathy, which is a good thing, at least you know you have support. You need to gently inform them that you are fine and would like to move forward with your life instead of dwelling on the past. If you deal with this issue in a confident and mature manner, people will automatically stop feeling sorry for you and will admire your positive outlook on life. Trust me, this works
2007-10-04 00:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by OJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must see how you are more experienced. Only a few ever go through a psychotic period and are separated from the mind. Only then do you see life totally and know realities unknown to the world. The well wisher will have the tragedy later on. Help prepare them to survive . All don't survive as well as you.
2007-10-04 03:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been treated differently all my life. What is wrong with that? Bring your eyes from the ground and look at the sky and the people, if the others are not different then you are surrounded by clones.
2007-10-04 04:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by Coop 366 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't tell many people the hell I've been through. That way, they don't think there's any reason they should feel sorry for me.
2007-10-04 02:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pity can be a damaging emotion, the best thing to do is say you want to concentrate on now rather than the past and tell people you want to be positive that life goes on and it is not helpful to dwell on the past, people will respect you for your attitude, as do I.
2007-10-04 02:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be strong, behave as if nothing happened with you.Then they will no more feel sorry for you, they forget everything.
I tell you from my owm experience.I hate when people feel sorry for me.
2007-10-04 00:43:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been to hell and back, my friends dont feel sorry 4 me they feel inspired by me ....you only feel sorry 4 those that fall n never get up........
2007-10-04 00:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by alone am i 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be patient with them, they mean well. This is a sign of maturity and grace
2007-10-04 00:22:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just do not react.
2007-10-04 00:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋