Ok, many men are angry over some of the unfairness in their lives, whether it is to do with losing money in divorces, losing kids, having next to nil reproductive rights and so on, but have noticed that many men just want their efforts appreciated and want respect as well.
So, what are some of the things that you, as a man want respect and appreciation for?
2007-10-04 00:06:15 · 9 answers · asked by Shivers 6 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Women need to stop punishing men who were in no way responsible for the wrongs or perceived wrongs of their forefathers.
Factual information would help immensely instead of the slogans surrounding feminism like the so-called "wage-gap", the lies being told about abuse and the fact that dads are considered expendable.
Simply realizing that women have the same rights plus a few extra and appreciating that without men (or women), the entire world would collapse upon itself.
It is difficult to see oneself as being appreciated or respected when there is so much anti-male propaganda being bantered about as if it were absolute truth.
In short, I guess the simplest answer is to give credit where credit is due and to stop vilifying those who are, in fact, not guilty. This alone is more than some women can muster.
2007-10-04 06:07:35 · answer #1 · answered by Phil #3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off learn the difference of being a good friend or becoming his sexual outlet friend. Put boundaries on your behavior so that he knows how to relate to you. The boundaries in the state I live in of what a female "friend" is to a man seemed to be so blurred that I cringe everytime some married man start acting flirty with me or other women. Adultry is common. Be nice and polite but lay off the touchy feely unless it is a brief hug or a touch of the hand and be soothing in your conversation via compassion. Men have a hard road to tow and if they are treated harshly they become heartless or mean I have seen. I have invited men out to lunch for pizza or a salad, my treat, just to give him a chance to eat, relax, vent or tell me I remind him of his annoying Italian grandmother in New York. I must confess however that my attitude comes easily as I was the only girl and I had 4 brothers. I love men and appreciate their insight and helpfulness. I just don't appreciate the way they transform when they become attracted to you and they seem to become pushy inconsiderate and manipulating. I much prefer the way they acted when we were 'just friends'. They had manners and knew if they were rude to you, you weren't going to tolerate it like a wife would. If men want respect they should act respectable and trustworthy as women are becoming more and more self reliant and enjoying their solitude more.
2007-10-04 01:10:22 · answer #2 · answered by sliverofmoon2000 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
specific.. even with the shown fact that it fairly is going to take so lots extra not elementary paintings than standard (i.e. than in case you the two accompanied God's word and waited.) the main subject right here could be forgiveness. Is he keen to wholeheartedly forgive you to your previous blunders/ sins? He must be trouble-free. If he can't, then he's not being as forgiving as our faith demands, and he won't be waiting to totally love you as God's advent. That courting could have so lots extra annoying circumstances to triumph over. yet another subject could be: have you ever admitted your mistake? To him and to a clergyman? have you ever clearly grew to become away out of your mistake and repented for it? Are you extremely attempting to alter right into a extra powerful man or woman now? if so, then you definately've have been given not something protecting you returned from starting to be solid returned. you will get right into a classic, healthy and God-honoring courting. If issues do not paintings out, then i'm sorry.. life is extremely like that. not all of us is super at forgiving. I merely wish which you never ignore that issues can nevertheless paintings out for you. There nevertheless are solid human beings in this international, and that i'm valuable there are adult males (%. only one, nonetheless, ahaha) available who're able to forgiving your sexual blunders and then proceed to having a impressive life with you. :)
2016-11-07 05:45:33 · answer #3 · answered by ritzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could start with the fact that men don't spend the evening amongst themselves whining about the behavior of women. Men typically have more constructive things to do with their time than passively complaining about things instead of making a real effort to change them. But that would be asking you to think and be engaging like men. Heaven forbid!
Shingoshi Dao
2007-10-04 00:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 1⤋
dear madam, men are afraiad of maintaining relationships, because they want to concentrate more on resposibilities of career and work. most of the men are internally secretive about the emotions and inexpressive. it does mean that they are serious. they like silence and seriuosness. you appreciate their work and honor them for the mistakes. dont reveal the weaknesse4s to others.
2007-10-04 00:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Interesting results to this question....
Shivers has provided a learning opportunity for women...giving forum to men to let us know what we can do to show respect and appreciation for men. And knowing her posts, it is a sincere offer. And what does she get in return? Crap! Abuse! Jokes!
From this, I can only assume that men just want to complain and whine as much as they accuse women of doing it. Cause I don't see any kind of constructive discussion going on...
2007-10-04 01:26:55 · answer #6 · answered by Super Ruper 6 · 1⤊ 6⤋
Any Thing which can boost his Ego.
2007-10-04 00:54:23 · answer #7 · answered by Brij 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
show up naked and bring beer...
Unless you are dating a snag (sensitive new age guy), then you should show up with an art film naked and bring wine.
2007-10-04 00:14:32 · answer #8 · answered by SpankyTClown 4 · 2⤊ 6⤋
How about credit when you finish your minor thesis.
2007-10-04 00:08:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 7⤋