On all my questions, I have specifically ask for help and advice on how to accept my problems and maybe one day fix them, but some how all I get is a bunch of people telling me to "deal with it" or to "get over it". Am I saying something wrong? Because it seems to me that no one really wants to help, they just want to express their own personal opinion on how fucked up your problems are and ridicule you for struggling, when in reality, they have no idea what you have been through. Every question I have answered was to HELP that person, not put them down. I never put people down, because I realize that they are doing the best they can. Am I the only person who feels this whay? Like no one truly is out there to HELP people anymore. Is there no compassion left?
2007-10-03 22:44:00 · 3 answers · asked by Katie S 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I read your other 2 questions and all of the answers you received. You got one decent answer to your first question, and several for your second one.
The problem is: You didn't get the answer YOU WANTED. When you open yourself up to a forum such as this, you must be willing to be satisfied with what you get. You are not paying for professional sociological advice here, and you won't get it.
The other reason you aren't getting the volume or type of answers you are looking for is....frankly.....your questions. You are a young girl in a relationship with a 17 year old boy who is a father, and must deal with a hateful ex-girlfriend. The whole thing is just sad and immature. Who would want to get involved in something like that? Most of us are mature enough to realize that you got yourself into a bad situation...you should have known better. So, why should any of us bother helping you? It's like someone asking, "My arm hurts when I smash it with a hammer? What should I do?"
Answer: Stop smashing it with a hammer!
For your situation specifically: Grow up, and take yourself out of this situation and get away from all the strife. Or, stop complaining about the problems YOU HAVE CAUSED YOURSELF.
2007-10-03 23:34:46 · answer #1 · answered by artistagent116 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry u feel that way. Alot depends on where u post did u put it in mental health i have give serious ( hopefully useful advice) My own exp is that most answers to serious questions are often useful or at least well intentionedbut there are a few jackasses out there who get off insulting others don't let then chase u away cause i feel this forum is useful. Also if someone insults u report them that can lead to their account being deleated which stops them from spreading drek
2007-10-03 22:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry I guess I haven't seen your questions.
2007-10-03 22:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by M J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋